after Leutner had been stabbed, they told her to lie still so as not to lose blood, while they went for help, while in fact they just didn’t want her to be discovered.

*cat with heart eye emoji* LOL.

I feel like this is the moment that I realized that 30 is not the “new” 20 and I’m officially old. lol.

It’s REALLY good. Smoked salmon on everything forever and ever.

Yeah! Go on little bean, get it!

It is definitely a possibility, and some other people have pointed out other flaws (homophobia being one of them) with this couple. I may not like them as people but I can still identify with their pain (and will definitely be as pissed as everyone else if they are liars).

Shit, girl, I am really sorry that all those comments happened but ESPECIALLY the one from your sister. Ouff.

That’s fair enough, I definitely didn’t read it that way - it’s really just the use of “some things should be kept private” that is catching me. Like some things are okay to be broadcasted but others aren’t, and in this case that thing is pregnancy loss.

No biggie!

But those are your boundaries.

That’s fair enough - I get why people find it off putting. I don’t really *get* vlogging (as someone who has started many a failed blog with the best intentions), so their media just isn’t really for me. I guess loads of people do like it though, so whatevs.

Thanks for sharing that - two of my besties went through late term losses (not quite that far along though) and I often think about how awful that would be. Loss is loss, but I know it’s like comparing apples to bananas. I don’t know if that pain ever really goes away but likely starts to get more tolerable? I’m sorry…

I know people try not to talk about the negatives, because it can spook pregnant ladies but I feel like we could all be so much more prepared* for good or bad or normal.

Tbh, I was also weirded out by the video (I only got a few mins in and that was enough for me - but this is why I don’t film my life for the internet) but it doesn’t really matter if I’m weirded out in the grand scheme of things.

Right? Feel your feelings, whatever they are. Talk about it if you need to talk about it, have drinks if you want to have drinks (I am going to follow your lead and have margaritas this weekend!) - do what you need to do/how you need to do it.

I would say loads of women relate to me (and the couple in the video) considering the majority of my notifications have been positive and you and one other people have decided that you have the “right” to whatever opinion you have but that same “right” doesn’t extend to me and I should “calm down”. The ironing.

That’s my point though - why suffer in silence?

I feel like this might be a good place to put this: I thought it might be nice to start a thread of advice on how to support a friend or loved one who is going through a pregnancy loss. It’ll obviously not apply to everyone, but I always wished that there was a little guide to help me help my buds and for them to help…

I am really glad you were able to come to that conclusion and allowed yourself to grieve in the way you needed to.