Psssh, the people have SPOKEN. Jane needs to come back. *pleads Jane...please come back--we need you.*

It’s been a really long time since I’ve read/wrote “RIP Milihelen” and I want to take the time to fill that gap: RIP Milihelen.

I say this as someone who intentionally listened to an R. Kelly song three years and still suffers from shame. Honestly, fuck me too.

Exactly, the celebrity response is too Johnny come lately. They ~wanted to work with him and after the fact they canceled him. Beyond transparent. There is a video of him urinating on a child--no apology is good enough.

The very disgusting issue with this is that multiple men could have raped her, but only one will be charged. Whole thing sickens me.

You guys:

Requesting that (at your own peril) you link this story in the cards:

This is why I was really drawn to sex-negative feminism instead of what sex positive feminism has become. There really just isn’t the space to talk about “bad sex” without it cleaving heavily to sexual assault or a la the the Babe/Aziz Ansari’s #metoo fiasco (the coverage and writing not the predatory incident).…

My deepest criticism with the OP was the astounding lack of care in considering how his/her solution would perpetuate racism, so yes I also don’t think it was their “intent” but that lack of critical thinking and the bland “that’s not what I meant” salve/apology isn’t going to work for me insofar that solutions to…

I’m trying to not touch this with a 10-foot pole, but there is definitely something wrong with the glib suggestion that we must yoke all problematic black men together that contributes to their continued demonization and lack of individualization. R. Kelly’s crimes stand alone especially given that he is a pedophile.…

Also to anyone trying find a philosophy or more about how sex is viewed as value positive and how that perception is harmful I would suggest reading: https://radtransfem.wordpress.com/2012/02/29/the-ethical-prude-imagining-an-authentic-sex-negative-feminism/ on “sex-negative feminism” which is NOT THE OPPOSITE of sex…

Every time I have to stand at my standing desk my day becomes a bit gloomier.

Please turn this into a featured column. I want these disgusting obit writers on notice.

You can donate your gently used bras to Soma intimates! It’s my weekend plan. :) 

@ work right now, so decided to mute the interview. The body language is astounding. worth a glance.

what happened to that teacher??

I hate this grandmother.

Hipsters really blow. I’m allergic to shellfish—sometimes the smell induces severe nausea and sometimes not, when ingested though always a problemo.

Also of note: his first broadcasted comedy show has an ENTIRE segment on how he doesn’t want a gay son. It’s gross.

I like both of these replies. Lots of time the “who” matters more via the continued erasure of contributions by POC and at other points the ridicule early adopters face. As this is a state vs state issue the who gets the "credit" is moot (sorta) and it is a benefit to society overall.