And now you are judging me because I don’t have a sex partner? You are really unbelievable.

Not gonna lie. The Rita who joke is one of my favorite of 2016 and 2015. Great years,

I’ve been following her since post pirates of the Caribbean. I swear she has been claiming black since then at least. She only had two or so movies before that since I stalk her. However, it’s not important.

That was very powerful. My deepest respect and apologies to you.

Yas.

OMG, something in this thread is making me smile...

A friend told me that one of his colognes isn’t that bad.

I also relate to myself.

Um, I thought it was going to be that “actually” kid for some reason.

I’m sorry is that opening question rhetorical?

Partners as a term just seems so limiting to me. When I think of partners I think of long-term sex partners. But for one nightstands and the like they kind of melt. How do you define partners? LT or all, but not rapist?

I concede that from your perspective it’s luck, but for me it would definitely be resilience 100%. And honestly, I do think that makes you even luckier.

The virginity angle is of zero value if the person was sexually assaulted by their third or fifth or twentieth person.

What?

I don’t want to discount your point, but damn I am so sure he isn’t.

Depends on who you ask, but absolutely.

I was already addressing my perception. You maligning me for that with your original comment is insensitive and disrespectful.

I thought it was perfectly sensitive, myself.

For me, I have bated breathe when making new girlfriends because I know the question is going to pop up. The body count is so invested with meaning and a snapshot of our sexual education.

I cannot disagree. I do think though that it’s a shame how most women’s rapist is an acquaintance and how they then have to naviagate their feelings and perceptions of that person. It is such an abuse. Really horrible.