if youre having sex with men, you shouldnt

I’m the same in the never had an orgasm from anyone but myself, through specific type of clitoral stimulation. I’ve been with multiple people though, mostly but not all men. Every man has treated it as though once he’s orgasmed it’s over. Every single one of them would return to poor techniques that either hurt or did…

I would hope so too, but in a world of selfish manchildren, it’s hard to find. 

Trust me, once he does all that stuff, it’ll feel like an entitlement pretty quickly :)

If you have Amazon Prime, there’s a show called Hotel Impossible. There’s an episode featuring the Sevilla Inn (Season 3, Ep 9) in Orlando/Kissimmee that will make your skin crawl.

Black spots in the creases of mattresses and/or dark rice grain looking things.

I suffered that side effect when I took SSRIs. Not only did the meds not help, but not being able to get off was just one more thing to be depressed about. When I brought my concern to my shrink, she asked in a stern voice “Is that really a problem for you?”

So much this. Coupled with so many bad sexual experiences, like where I felt pressured to do something that felt good for him but did nothing for me.

Always keep your priorities straight! :)

Right there with you! I haven’t had any desire to date since my 15 year ltr ended. In theory I’m attracted to men, but in practice sex with them is so often no fun. Unless I meet a unicorn who loves wilderness camping, vegetarian cooking and cunnilingus, I’m way more turned on by my fantasy life and toy drawer.

A more likely theory is that because sex has been so consistently unrewarding for so many straight women, they’re not responding positively to anything because there is no psychological reinforcement of this equal pleasure.

At least Martha Stewart managed to earn the respect of Snoop for not snitching.  I don’t see the upside for the heiress here.

As my married best friend says, the best female viagra would be a husband that does his share of the housework and parenting and a workplace that actually accommodates working mothers’ needs.

With $2.6b you’d think she’s rich enough to finagle her unpromising children into the schools of their choice the old fashioned way. Aunt Becky couldn’t cut USC a check for like $10m to endow a new wing of the library without affecting her standard of living deleterious, but Madame Hotpocket absolutely could.

I am sadden by the news that she bribed the guy with money instead of Hot Pockets.

You’re aware he doesn’t work for EA, right? If he chose to make EA Sports games his livelihood, he should have considered the outcome of blowing off his mouth like a fucking idiot beforehand. He did this to himself.

Yeah, I think the sentence should have read “and there’s a very very good and convincing argument it sets a heavy-handed but entirely fair precedent.”

While the ban seems incredibly harsh

Maybe it's just my personality but if something angers me that much I just remove myself from the situation. This doesn't seem like a healthy way to live.

One of the worst things you can do when trying to convince people of your cause is to make the other side look more reasonable. No matter the argument, figuratively shitting one’s own pants and flinging it everywhere actively encourages people to root against you, irrespective of the merits of the argument.