Ah, I see you call a workmate a bitch. Yeah. I cannot see you as a feminist. Goodbye.

That's great that you personally are able to handle it all.

Haha... no.

That's 100% not what I'm saying. Please read my other posts to others here. No energy to deal with the stupid right now.

Apologies for swearing at you. I myself just got called a shitstain! Getting sworn at is never fun. I'm usually fairly nice here. Obviously I'm riled up. So apologies for taking it out on you.

Right, because she presumably has money she must not feel things. Why are you such an awful person? Ugh.

I'm so tired of trying to explain this. Am copying/pasting my reply to someone else. Have a cup of coffee, wake up your brain a bit, think, and you'll see I'm way more on your side than even you are, honey:

Wow. Just... wow. I am so far from mansplaining and excusing rape. If you don't want to make the world a better place. Fine. Carry on...

The others out there might not resort to such extreme crimes, but that doesn't mean they aren't in despair. Of course this woman needs to be blamed, but that doesn't mean we can't talk about the larger social issues at play here.

Precisely. We don't know enough facts or reasons about why she did it. But she did do it. So let's think about why. That does not excuse her, that does not mean the woman who was threatened with rape should not receive justice. But it happened, and it didn't happen in a vacuum where she acted unilaterally as an…

Christ doesn't anyone here understand the concepts structure and agency? I'M NOT EXCUSING HER. That is not what is the focus of any debate here. Perhaps she's playing the 'poor me' card, at this time we don't know. However her actions should cause us to pause and assess how she came to do this, wouldn't this allow…

Holy fuck I'm not making excuses for anyone.

Christ alfuckingmighty. I'm not excusing anything.

Thank you for an intelligent reply. Yes, she went to very dark, unacceptable extremes. There are no excuses for her actions; I'm only looking at larger social issues.

Your posts are puerile.

Keep on compartmentalizing! The world will make perfect sense to you. It will be so easy for you.

I'm not wasting my time on you anymore.

Yes, that makes perfect sense, right? But that's not what happened. Let's hope you and I and others are never in a position where we are so desperate to see our loved ones taken care of in the best way possible that we simply snap and fall into an abyss in which we cannot find a way out.

You're a close-minded asshole.

Women perpetually slotted in the role of caretaker, the awful healthcare system, exorbitant housing costs, a country where some school districts and social services are better than others... Sorry are you fucking 12? Can you not think critically?