Indeed, it seems like some people think other people’s weddings should be events centered around their children. Like people above mentioning this same thing and that the kids room was so much fun that all the adults went to the kid’s room. So essentially you should play and pay for a wedding and your guests should…

HERE HERE literally no one should tell you who you should and should not invite. That irritates the hell out of me.

I’m doing it. He has a niece and a nephew and they are invited. All my cousins/friends have multiple kids under 5, those kids are not invited. Its a wedding, not romp a room.

I’ve seen other people do it and people making exceptions for family who are traveling. I don’t have kids so I’ve never done this.

No and I am not talking about europe. I am talking about here where its really not appropriate to bring small children in a place where adults go to drink.

There are gluten free things available but my guess is he still won’t eat them....oh well, that’s his problem. I’m not shipping off 3 towns over to find a gluten free pizza for him.

Did you bother to call her and explain the hardship of finding childcare when you have to travel? My guess is she probably would’ve allowed your kids had you asked.

These are the same people who bring their kids to BARS. Note to 2015 parents: there are some places that you just shouldn’t bring your kids, you might love them but they dampen other people’s time. Get a sitter! (I understand childcare its expensive for some but the hipsters who bring their kids to beer gardens are…

Don’t get me started. I am having a food truck wedding with a carefully crafted menu of seasonal and local food. There are two kids going, one is insanely picky/gluten free. I doubt he will eat anything.

People pay for each guest, if you show up with two guests that weren’t invited...it kinds screws with everything, seating, food, etc...

In the northeast, children at wedding receptions is not a thing. I agree that unless your child is specifically invited, they aren’t invited and plan accordingly.

Its super hard when you are just white dudes

because they never tested it on black faces because....tech....

I’m cool with that. Its not my money.

jesus, why anyone would subject themselves to hate watching fox is beyond me.

oh so he explained it during the part i skipped....LAME!!!

cosigned, i’m going to be a beautiful bride, I don’t mind hearing it.

I don’t think I was ever freaking out after my engagement. Getting married to the man I already share my home with doesn’t seem terribly daunting. But throwing a DIY food truck wedding in a flower preserve, its slightly daunting.....

CAN I COME TOO????