I am 180 and I have a small waist-my big fat ass squeezes into a 10

My first rule for my wedding was it was absolutely not to be strapless. There are very few people that strapless flatter yet I see every other bride with her boob fat hanging over the sides of her strapless gown....you can actually make every body type looks nice if you don’t do a one size fits all approach to wedding…

That’s right, I got a nice thick layer of flab over my nice thick layer of muscle. I just love being strong, I love flexing my muscles and feeling how hard they are or that I don’t topple over when i pick something up. Muscle is fun for muscles sake.

I use waif because our culture tells us that this is what a woman must be. So women internalize it and believe they must be a size 2 to be attractive. Now some men like very thin women and that’s fine, that doesn’t mean all men do.

that I’d buy!

yeah this isn’t like you’re fat and I really care about your size comment, its a “hey those of us who might look like you and find it awesome that you are so successful would appreciate if you weren’t throwing us under the bus and claiming to a pretty small size” To me that’s not really a positive message to send...

also I’m attractive but not plus sized model attractive

I met him when I was 32

I would never claim I am a size 6 because I have one size 6 dress, lest I am being vain and dishonest.

It might be rubbish but its also rubbish to say if you are bigger no man will ever find you attractive. I will admit that I am still conventionally attractive even though I am heavier. As for your questions in my thirties and I was proposed to last year at 33 in the Philadelphia region.

i live in the US and wear the same brands...

You know what. you’re right! At Gap my dress size is a 6 and my pants size is a 10-14 depending...so I’m a 6!

tell her that at 175lbs I was able to pull 3 dates a week with hot, intelligent guys. and when I was 185 my gorgeous fiancee proposed to me. Not all men want waifs, some do but they aren’t for her.

I just find it really suspect that they are both larger but are also both just one size up from hollywood size expectations. Its like they are saying “hey I know I’m bigger but I’m pretty damn close to what you are all looking for so that’s ok”

she might be really short...but as a 5’4 woman whose body looks pretty much the same as amy’s...i’m a 10 on a good day....

Dear Amy and Mindy,

samesies, it might look great on everyone but it doesn’t mean we all know how to do it.

Aleve: A caring company

My brother didn’t walk with his graduating class for our catholic school because he failed discipline. He got too many demerits for going to the bathroom and talking during class. So he had to spend a month in summer school and on his last day they called our house and informed him they were having a graduation…

Also inquiring because I don’t know how boners work. Is it something you can control? Do you think about baseball if you are trying to not get one? Need more details.