One section of the document is devoted to women’s appearance: Be “polished,” have a “good haircut, manicured nails, well-cut attire that complements your body type,” it states on Page 36. But then, a warning: “Don’t flaunt your body ― sexuality scrambles the mind (for men and women).” Read more
It’s not a unique sentiment, but bullet dodged. It sounds like he did quite a bit to hurt you. Maybe in time having all the information will help you make better sense of it of it and process. Sometimes we know something is wrong, we feel it, but can’t confrim or describe. As women, we can second guess ourselves at… Read more
I spent 10 years with a man like this. I want you to know that it’s not that he finds her more attractive than you, or more lovable. She’s more compliant, easier to manipulate and control. That’s all. And I guarantee he’s cheating on her too. No woman will ever be enough for him, because his self loathing is greater… Read more
Ugh that’s the worst, I googled one of my exes this past week because I was like oh hey I literally have not heard of them for 2 years and found out they are a felon now. So that’s fun. Drugs and alcohol are a hell of a downward spiral.
It might be useful to you to get over things. When my ex told me he kissed someone within a week of breaking up, it finally snapped everything. I still think he might have cheated too.
He’s a jerk.
As always, it’s Sunday Morning Antisocial already here in UpsideDownLand. I’m skipping my husband’s orchestral performance (he plays violin in a local amateur orchestra) this afternoon and feeling marginally guilty, but I don’t feel like sitting in a cold dark grey church for four+ hours, especially when I’m in one of… Read more
I’m going to leverage your thought leadership when we ideate our next ecosystem disruption. I think a deep dive initiative will help unpack the core competencies needed to move the needle on our deliverables. Hopefully, it will incentivize engagement among key players. I’m out of pocket right now, so I can’t drill… Read more
Here’s my mom’s oddest fetish (which I never followed). If you put on a blouse (or even a t-shirt) inside-out, then you MUST wear it all day (that way) or some thing really terrible will happen to one of your friends. Also, if you spilled salt (while cooking anything) then you must toss a handful of salt over your… Read more
I lost contact with my friends a few years back. Long story, I was an ass hat. Now that I straightened my life, I’m ready for friends again. I signed up for classes. I’ve taken language classes, along with dance classes. I have a study group and interact with people for a few hours after work. I have yet to meet a… Read more