A lot of my friends over the past year or so have been 'coming out' as into ABDL… Not really an interest for me but I do find the juxtaposition of a hot guy in diapers intriguing…

As nice as it may sound, do NOT take a hot shower… Not sure if this is common knowledge but apparently opening up your pores lets the poison ivy oils back out and creates an even larger rash, much to high-school-me's dismay…

It's almost as if some sort of balance between the two would be best…

I'm kind of surprised Dan didn't also give tips on training the boyfriend to not need such rapid thrusting to climax…

Haha, I've never seen a honeypot used like this before

Haha nice, I didn't know that!

I always take not drinking as a yellow flag. I know someone who chooses not to because he knows he has an addictive personality, and I think it's really cool that he realizes this and takes care of it. However, if someone doesn't know how to enjoy alcohol responsibly and in moderation it makes me wonder what other…

I've even heard of people refusing to do "dates", they'll only meet for tea. Because you can usually tell within 20 seconds if it's going somewhere, why commit to an entire meal?

Yeah, sooo much this! The more someone's profile insists they aren't drama/slutty/femme/whatever the more likely they are to be drama/slutty/femme/whatever.

They wanted to use that line in the movie but apparently it was too offensive? Apparently one of the writers made a deal to go with something else but they had to accept whatever the substitute was, which wound up being "I haven't been fucked like that since grade school."

Noting that everyone is just pretending they're adults that have it all together is always good for a few chuckles in any crowd. I think everyone feels this way, check out Impostor Syndrome

I'm in an open/poly relationship.. I've been with my Sir for 3 years now, and he's been with his partner for 12 years… I have trouble relating to people when they talk about jealousy like this, because our conversations around jealousy are usually something like "Hey I'm playing with Hotface next Tuesday" "Ohhhh he's…

No no, it will help the migraine go away!

Oh ya I didn't mean to imply that I thought he was lying about them

It's funny, I've had some pretty crazy exploits as well, but never felt like "Oh man, I have craaazy sex all the time." So similar to Dan's advice to DIGS, if someone posts a wild sexy story, or even 5 wild sexy stories, it's probably because they've only got 5 wild sexy stories, and probably still aren't Hollywood…

I never understood why trans-bashing is okay when it's Ann Coulter… I mean yeah she's an obnoxious toxic vile person, but that just makes calling her trans even more degrading to trans people.

Hmmm, did disqus swallow my comment? Trying again…

There's something really hot about being completely sealed in rubber, and having your breath regulated through a valve/filter. Part of being under complete control of the dom. To me latex masks always give people weird expressions, and gasmasks look a lot hornier. They also make breath control really easy. Some people…

It's happened once or twice, spontaneously, but the things the boyfriend and I get up to don't really interest the boyfriend's partner. However the boyfriend and I have played with others, including a hot military boy a few weeks ago!

Scariest thing I've done in my whole life, but also the most liberating. Who knows what dark hole I would've climbed down to if I hadn't come out in my teens. I have this compelling need to be authentic, and it pains me that I still have to compartmentalize things (hey Mom, not only do I have one boyfriend, he's also…