Well now I want a bottle opener that'll fit in my PA…

Treated and dyed hemp rope is just what's traditionally used in Japanese rope bondage, or shibari. I believe shibari also includes specific techniques and knots…

#NotAllPorn

Pup-play has become a huuuge thing in gay fetish-land. I think a lot of the appeal in the younger crowd is that it's much more playful and much less intimidating than a dom/sub or Master/slave setup. Despite identifying as a boy myself, I'm also involved in the Chicago Puppy Patrol if any of you are vaguely interested…

Pretty sure WTF just got nervous. It can be really intimidating to suddenly be able to realize a huge fantasy like that. I've seen it a lot on fetish profile sites, where someone is really excited at the prospect of [whatever complicated fantasy scene], but once they actually have the date set up with someone they get…

So Scruff used to be really exclusive, like they would delete your profile if your body hair didn't meet whatever their standards were. But now it's pretty much everybody on there, not just particularly hairy men, so worth checking out.

It's not actually that dirty, originally it was grindr (or tindr for you straight people I guess) for hairy men, now it's just another alternative hookup app.

Ahhh gotcha. You may want to check out a local fetish event too, if they've got a market, just so you can see what's out there and what people look like actually wearing the stuff ;)

In the US Mr. S Leather (mr-s-leather.com) is to be the gold standard for leather gear. You can find cheaper options but their leather just feels better to me, and it's built to last a lifetime. For latex my favorite domestic place right now is E7 (e7gear.com), though latex can't really be built to last, if you want…

I think it's only classified as submissive by people in emotionally abusive relationships

It really does seem like this guy has emotionally manipulated her to the point where she's damaged goods. I'd wager it'll take her a loooong time to figure out everything he's done to her…

Dunno, the "I have kept my identity secret and have insisted on knowing these gents’ real and verifiable info." kind of led me to believe she's not really capable of a balanced relationship…

Don't know who's on the list celeb-wise, but I have noticed a trend lately of more and more gays that are very much into red-heads…

Complicated contraptions make for pretty amazing sex…

Idiotking punched me in the face once. *it was awesome*

I'm not sure Sir or I qualify as fisty-twinks but I'm sure between the two of us we could procure one…

Haha, well let me know next time you're in Chicago :)

This is how I feel about fisting, feeels *amazing*, but it's not gonna get me off.

Yeah, half the time my partner's dirty talk is what sends me over the edge, and half the time all it does is make me think "shutupshutupshutup!"

I think "Hi, I know it's been the better part of three since we've spoken, but I have a silly crush on you" is a perfectly cromulent opener, and see where it goes from there. I find being silly/honest/playful to work really well. I'd leave out any "should"s though, she's not really obligated to do anything for you.…