This is the type of bullshit that would make someone Flip over in their grave.

Please do elaborate on my interests? Because Income inequality isn’t fixing racism and the supposition that it will is ignorant as all hell. Like it’s literally infuriating. As is the fact that Sanders voted for the same crime bill that they like to throw in HRC’s face. I’m old enough to remember the crack epidemic…

I’m black and voting for Hillary. #SorrynotSorry. I don’t find this condescending at all. Why don’t you get in government IS the right answer. I’m so tired of all these whiny people running around complaining all the politicians are in someone’s pocket or are “UNAUTHENTIC” . GO BE A POLITICIAN Then. That’s an…

Holy shit, those bullet points you highlighted are embarrassing!

As a Cubs fan: Hahahahahaha. Thanks for Arrieta, too.

Why did you let this fool out of the greys? Please tell me they were in the greys.

That took some fucking balls. Life is an imperfect mess. The effort is never wasted. Good to figure out the emotional shit underneath the indiscretion.

How many years ago was this? I hope it does not resurface later in your marriage. As a woman, IF I had somehow agreed to stay married, do therapy and try to carry on, I am also sure I would never forget and not completely forgive...I am pretty sure I would always resent it. Anyway, my 20-yr marriage just ended. No…

I don’t agree. When I was young and idiotic and in relationships that I probably wasn’t ready for emotionally, I wasn’t faithful 100% of the time. Once I grew up a bit and understood where that was coming from, I got together with my now-fiance and have never even considered straying. It’s not that I changed…

I’m amazed no one related your story to your screen name yet.

Don’t die, bro. You’ve got this.

Be glad to get to move on with all your fingers and toes. You’ll be happier. It’ll take a while, so get ready. But stay strong. Travel. Write (even if you’re not a “writer” - write). Get into theater if you already aren’t. Hang out with friends. Learn how to drone-race. Do anything and whatever it takes to get you…

As a single woman, I’ve found that quite a few of the guys who have approached me looking to cheat on their partners do it when their partners are pregnant or are within a year of having given birth. That seems to be a really insecure time for men.

My father cheated on my mother for 8 years. Well, that was with the one, serious one. He cheated much longer with many other women. But, they divorced and she moved on and she has been happy now for many years. There are better times ahead.

You do realize the blog is ADEQUATE man, not PERFECT man, right? :-p

I really recommend Kamal Ravikant’s book “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It”. It's a short read and that book paved a way for a better life for me personally. Don't give up.

Yes your marriage is done. You will never trust her again nor should you. Eight years isn’t an impulse.

Seriously. I have cheated when I was younger and had impulse control/intimacy problems. Enter therapy + growing the fuck up = the most stable and solid relationship of my life. Couldn’t be more content.

Just found out my wife’s been cheating for eight fucking years. Marriage pretty much done. Haven’t pulled the trigger yet on divorce but kinda have too.

Dealt with this recently.