It’s a really long, agonizing story. Suffice to say it affected me professionally and it was clear something was amiss.

Good for you! Congrats.

Nope. People can change. It’s hard, but they can.

I disagree. If it’s a serious relationship, telling them goes beyond just making yourself feel better. It’s to establish a level of honesty, which is hella important. There’s always going to be this feeling you have, and it’s going to create distance. If you think you won’t do it again, I think it’s worth it to tell…

I cheated on my wife while she was pregnant — and please... yes, I know. It was the worst thing I’ve ever done and have raked myself over the coals a thousand times since.