Man that is just a sucky situation all around for you, I'm sorry. It's entirely possible that his wife picked up on things and knew he had a crush on you. But even though her jealousy may have actually been reasonable, it's totally awful that she would take it out on you as if it were in any way your fault!

This. And it doesn't even have to be the guy trying to cheat—some girls do not have good boundaries and are always trying to make points on a guy. My boyfriend (husband now) never understood why I had problems with only certain of his friends who were girls—he thought I was crazy jealous. For me it was the problem…

Frankly your boyfriend might be priortizing his friendship with her over his relationship with you.

Here's step one: listen to your gut, always. And be ready to walk away if your gut tells you there's something wrong.

Lesson #1- ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT.

All in all, she's not very nice to me, and asks him to go out and do things and never includes me in the invite. I trust him, but i don't trust her. Makes me pissed because he won't acknowledge that if the roles were reversed he wouldn't be happy with this situation either.

this was my situation. My now ex husband was best friends with his high school girlfriend/casual sex partner after high school. At first I tried to be friends with her, but got nowhere. She just didn't want anything to do with me. She continuously lied and tried to break us up to the point where they didn't speak for…

THIS. I had a best friend in high school, and his girlfriend (who later became his wife) hated me with the heat of a thousand suns. There was never anything between us, in fact I gave him advice about how to get her to go out with him in the beginning. I wound up giving up the friendship when they got married—I had…

My husband wouldn't be down for another guy joining us, and I wouldn't be down with another girl. Sad trombone.

I've been in a bunch of situations where I'm that friend, and it sucks! I think a good strategy is to try to cultivate a relationship between your female friend and your girlfriend (or your male friend and your boyfriend, or your friend of any gender and your partner of any gender if you're bi.) Invite them to stuff…

This is something my boyfriend and i argued about today. Him and his girl friend used to have casual sex, and she was really upset when we started dating. I've been kind to her, and attempted to be her friend, but she's always given me the cold shoulder while confiding in him. All in all, she's not very nice to me,…

Ooof... well that's going to be a problem. I've tried to learn to sew multiple times but can still barely sew buttons, and I'm way too poor to hire somebody. Looks like I'll have to keep doing what I always do: trying on everything that might possibly fit in the discount rack and buying whatever turns out okay.

No, Jesus loves you but Satan does that thing with his tongue.