Every time my one friend refers to one of her friends as "my gay hubby" I want to burn both of their apartments down. Like, really. Then again, people like that tend to find (and deserve) each other.

Yes! Amazing, right?

Just so you know, virutally all the rats that live in NYC are Norway Rats. Norway Rats themselves vary greatly in size.

homophobic =/= criticizing very real, very difficult issues within different communities.

I'm glad he wrote this article. This is a problem that needs to be discussed. No, I don't agree with every single point made in it. Nonetheless, it's still a well-written article. Most of his points are spot-on.

Before I officially came out as a trans woman, I was perceived as a typical straight dude because I repressed any and all femininity. But when I was getting closer to actually transitioning, I started allowing myself to express that side for the first time. And of course, people started to think I was a gay man,…

Not only is this a fantastic, well-written, and thought-provoking essay, but it is the best one I have seen on Jezebel to date. Keep it coming!

It's like how Mrs. Epps treated Patsey in 12 Years a Slave—you make your own sh*t life seem better by making some other person's life even sh*ttier.

But that's not what this article is about. Write your own article if that's what you want to read about, this man is writing about one very specific thing. Its not his job to write about all things you want to read.

Thank you for writting this! I've often considered myself 'lucky' because I discovered my same sex attraction to women when I was 13, and back then, before there were any real role models in the media for gay women (as far as I remember anyways). So I was allowed to discover this about myself, explore it within…

This piece was so thoughtful and beautifully written. Thank you a million times over for writing it.
A few days ago here on Jezebel, I posted two different stories about men that had harassed me on the internet. The second story I told was about a gay man that harassed me after my father died. He said some of the most…

Thank you so much for acknowledging this-as a lesbian, I want to ally with and supper gay men, but so many of them just seem to hate me and women and especially lesbians. It's like the misogyny of our culture minus any tempering of female company; it's like gay men can find a level of disrespect straight men only…

This is misogynistic as well. You've taken an article about the problems of women and you've tacked on, "but what about the poor menz"?
What you say is true, but this is not the place or that discussion.
Thank you for proving the bloggers point.

Thank you for writing this.

That's what my Ikea bookcase looked like after my first attempt at building it. Where's my $1400???

Currently, you sound super awesome.

I'll see your apartment and raise you the 487 sq-ft studio I live in with my fiancé and two dogs.

this is way better