I'm taking notes. Whenever I have kids, I will instruct my hubby to give me shoulder massages or play with my hair when I breastfeed. It will be a wonderful bonding experience for all of us.

I think this whole article and ones dealing with similar issues would be better if they focused on race AND class, possibly with more attention paid to the class than the race part and not just using the word appropriation and thinking the job is done. I think what's offensive about Lana Del Ray's shit is similar to…

THIS ISN'T EVEN MY FINAL FORM!!!

I know, I had no idea there were so many closed-minded bigots that frequented this site. Or is it just that they're the ones who feel the need to voice their opinion the loudest? Either way, I'm regretting the decision to read these comments :(

Seconding the Lavanilla recommendation. I don't even like vanilla scents, but their versions are great. (Personal fave: Vanilla passionfruit.)

Have you tried LAVANILLA's pure vanilla? It's exactly what you've describe: Vanilla without smelling like a cookie. I swear by it and get compliments every where I go while wearing it.

I thought they were the same person .

Oh, if it's the Photoshop that's the problem, then I totally agree. I thought the issue was the fact that she's thin, and there are plenty of "real" thin women.

You are 16, going on 17..........and he looks 25, going on statutory.

Don't stare right at her tits. Bitches hate that.

Oh well, now I want this.

And with that, many an Internet commenter will be forced to eat his or her words. Not that they will learn anything from it or change their behavior. I was just bemoaning the insistence...almost to the point of compulsion...of people to shit all over victims before all information becomes available. It's not as big of…

It's only giant because it's imaginary.

Don't flatter him. It's not giant, even if it is imaginary.

Yo know what, I love dogs. They come in so many sizes - Great Danes, St. Bernards, Huskies, Whippets, Chows, Border Collies, Heelers, Shih-Tzus, Chiwawas - but they're all dogs. And a healthy Great Dane is a very different looking dog than an healthy Chiwawa but no vet will tell you the Great Dane is unhealthy for…

Yes, I am myself a cross between completely grossed out and kind of impressed.

Crap. On the bright side, he can't see how often I creep on his profile, right? Right??

Can we at least wait to find out the details of the accident?

He was the PASSENGER.

People are such jerks. [ETA: I refer to some of the other comments in the gray.]

A component not mentioned by the author is that sometimes women are reacting to the male privilege some trans* women bring with them to female spaces and encounters—masculine communication patterns and entitlement behaviors, to name two. For me—and I would venture to say a good number of women who get labeled as…