Yep. And you don't know Beyonce either, most likely.

Yeah. I remember. :/ It was eerie and awful. We were watching it in my college class.

Yes! My child wants the wheelchair herself. I have resisted because IT IS EXPENSIVE.

So, that could be it then. I do remember it. It was really awful.

This is my feeling as well.

I wouldn't be surprised to find that THIS is the real issue. If you remember the Challenger tragedy, it seems a bit more problematic. If you don't, it's really easy to say it was a long time ago.

I'm not outraged myself, but I can sort of see why the widow might be, you know? That was the worst day of her life, most likely, and it's being used in a love song.

Yeah, that would actually be a TERRIFIC Doll of the Year kind of thing. Their dolls of the year have been very blah lately. No cool historical ones or anything like that anymore.

That's because it's not top 40. He's a composer of minimal music (like Philip Glass). He's not really someone everyone listens to. Also, I would not be okay with that kind of thing and kind of not eager to listen to it, even in the name of art, etc.

I am so proud to say I've never watched a single episode of this fake horseshit.

They do sell a wheelchair. Please don't ask me how I know this. It was one of those Christmases.

Good grief, she is amazing.

The other solution is to go to the thing for a short amount of time. You see her, give her a nice going away gift, hug, talk for a bit, and then leave. That way you have limited time with people who sound like absolute shits, honestly.

Is there any way at all you could meet her separately for a short time, for lunch or coffee? You could phrase it as "I really want to see you, but the timing is off a bit. Can we meet for coffee at X or can I come by your house on Y? Then, get her a nice going away present, and take it to her house or meet her for…

Dick Cheney is still with us. :/ Evidently, his contract with Satan isn't up yet.

I agree. People do make mistakes and then fix it. Not everyone who cheats is going to repeat the mistake.

Honestly, Candy is a manipulative grifter herself, from what I can see. She basically disinherited both kids, talking her husband into leaving it all to her to distribute. And then, she gave them each very, very little. It seems like she dangles the rest in front of them ostentatiously the rest of the time. She's kind…

In my parents' house, it would be "Wait for your mother to stop killing things in the video game, and then, remember to save if you sneak in to take away the controller while she's in the bathroom."

YES. THIS. That's ridiculous.

It's completely upsetting to have to be associated with racism, etc.