I just can't with her. She is the person we all wish we could be in a crisis. She wins life.

That gif made my life lol

If you like to cook, and like something easy that has good shelf life, make your own granola! The whole grains will keep you full, the nuts/seeds/dried fruit/honey will add the calories and nutrients you need, and once it's baked and bagged, it has a great shelf life! My boyfriend is in the army, and I try to whip up…

That is SUPER shitty!!! I mean, to be led on for an entire year, invest time and money, and then hours before be told, "Yeeeeaaaahhhh. No." If that was going to the plan from the beginning, they should have told you, at the very least so you wouldn't have had your feelings fucking dashed at the end there. Ugh. I'm so…

THANK YOU!!! We seriously had a freaking great time! Across the board: parents, friends, everyone. I also appreciated that they politely asked that no kids be at the reception. I love kids and all, but it was nice to have some grown-folks-only fun!

Not in the least! When I showed up for the first fitting, the guy measured me like he would anyone else: neck, shoulders, inseam. It was not at all awkward. He then mentioned something that I hadn't even thought about: though he doesn't fit women super often, he does get them from time to time for restaurant/fancy…

Thank you! I was so honored to be in the party, and I even got to decide if I wanted the tux or not. It was pretty rad. And that sucks about your friend — don't use a stand in, do the real deal, y'know. The best part for me was that his parents and family didn't get on him about having a best woman! Our families know…

We had SO MUCH FUN!!!!! And thank you!!! I loved the tux!

That was pretty much yesterday!! I didn't cry at the ceremony because I was laughing too much, but I totally cried a little during my toast. Also, I love that you ended up in a tub with a cupcake. That just sounds like a ton of fun, frankly!! :-)

Thank you!!! There were a few people who were like, "You're my first Best Woman! Rock that tux!" lol

Thank you!! We had a blast! And the ceremony was adorable: Coach was so nervous her put the ring on the wrong finger at first! lol And Tasha (the bride) was super chill and didn't say anything; the pastor was joked and said, "Okay, that was good... We just need to start over with the correct hand this time..." We all…

That sounds like a fun day!!! My Saturday hasn't been lazy since I was driving home from Cleveland back to Fayetteville. I'm so glad to hear that movie was good though, because I really wanna see it!!!!

YOU GUYS!!! My buddy Coach got married yesterday!!!! And I was the best woman, and our other friend Bueno was also a groomsman, and Kelly was there, and little foursome had a great time!! I wore a tux, and Coach gave us groomsfolk pocket watches with out initials engraved as gifts. And his bride was gorgeous and we…

Yes. But thanks for checking on my vocab.

Welp, I'm going home for the week since one of my bffs is getting married on Friday!!! And I'm in the wedding, and I'm his best (wo)man, so I'm totally wearing a tux, which I am pretty pumped about. And I got a nice dress for the reception and if you couldn't tell, I'm SUPERSUPERHAPPY for my friend. And it'll be a…

I didn't say that wasn't important. And it is devastating that the young woman (and the countless others we have no clue about) have been physically, mentally and emotionally scarred for life. But it can't be said that it isn't equally sad that these young men were indoctrinated with shitty mores and norms, and…

The sad part about this abhorrent culture taught to these young men is that they are basically learning how to throw their lives away. It's like any shreds of human decency/the voice in your head that would normally say, "Hey, raping people isn't a good thing to do" just goes out the window upon entry to this group.…

Ahhhh. Okay. I had no idea that by suggesting that not everyone is offended I was saying, "Please, by all means, traipse about asking every random person you meet where they are from.

How? Not everyone is offended by being asked where they're from (when asked appropriately and in a way that isn't insensitive) which is my point. The author doesn't speak for everyone — just like I don't, and I didn't imply that I do.

Again, I get the frustration, and I certainly don't expect everyone to feel the same as I do. I guess ultimately I'm just less bothered by this kind of thing because I'm just as inquisitive and I always ask lots of questions about everything.