Musical New Wave is. But the french cinematographic new wave is mostly a 60/70’s thing

Oh, for God’s sake, I’m calling time on the universe giving you shit as of now.

Oh, my God.

You are absolutely right. I’m just in a kind of shock and running off at the mouth (fingers?). I’ve already asked two friends about the lawyers they used in their divorces (and got him to agree to pay the fees for my lawyer). I just have been walking around in a stupid shell-shock fog while at the same time…

Signing over the house sounds like a deal, BUT, it would be a good idea to have a lawyer look things over anyway. You are not in any shape to make any big decisions impulsively, and neither is he, quite frankly, but you can only control your own actions, and you need someone in your corner who is going to be able to…

As for documenting the communication - it’s all been text except for one exceptional drunk, self-pitying call from him, which I quote in txt the next day.

It may be his grief, or the alcohol, or his meds, but you need to protect yourself first (a bit like they say in those inflight safety videos). Get a lawyer, secure your finances and independence, and only then see if / how much you want (and can) help him. I’ve seen too many girlfriends get left high and dry in a…

I’m so sorry; that is all devastating. It is possible that it’s the alcohol, lack of meds, and grief talking, but you need to protect yourself. From what he is saying he does not have your best interests in mind, so you need to protect yourself; get yourself a lawyer, as soon as you can, and start documenting his…

I thought I’d whine somewhat anonymously.

That’s lovely! And what an innovative way to enjoy the holidays.

now I am very miffed if I’m forced out of the house on Christmas or Boxing Day.

Do you have any friends (or the Bartender) to spend time with, even if it’s not specifically festive? Holidays can suck, but if you can find a way to de-emphasize what you “should” be doing and just spend a bit of time with the people who do matter, it can help.

Make your own new non-toxic holiday traditions. Give yourself as much of the dream holiday experience as you can have this year, and see it as a foundation you can add to over the years.

I used to feel that way about the holidays too, although not from the family trauma that you’ve experienced, but having drifted apart from my family and then having nobody to spend the days with. And then, I’m not sure when it happened, I realized that I hadn’t actually enjoyed dragging my sorry ass out of the house…

We’re in the holiday spirit over here. I made gingerbread, the edges got a bit wavy because of the parchment paper liner, but no regrets! I didn’t have a pan to clean on top of bowls and utensils! I’m more upset that I ruined my powdered sugar pattern on top. I also made mulled cider, some wassail if you will, so it’s…

You continue to be a shining light in the world, Maya. Do remember to take care of yourself, too. You rock!

Merry Christmas Maya. Good quality warm socks are my go to donation to homeless shelters.

Kudos to her. 

And she made it clear that she was voting FOR our Constitution, not against anyone. Bravo! And holding up a copy of OUR Constitution just puts a small dagger into the hearts of the Republican balderdash.

Hey: nah. Blackface is bad. Darkening your skin tone to alter your perceived race, even for cosplay, is bad.