I miss the no body snark policy. It seems like we’re back to the middle school justification of “well this person is awful so it’s ok to say something shitty”. I hate to even say this but pre election when an artist made that nude statue of Cheeto Bandito it was just this wave of small dick loser jokes and it just…

Oh good, good, the phrasing was a little unclear!

You should still be getting tested and encouraging your partners to test as well - STIs can still be transmitted with condom use, especially viral ones.

I think people would like to do both. I’m sure there are funds for her and her son but without working it sounds like she still needs a lot. And the other ladies, if there is any way to help them with legal representation that would be great; if there is a way to get them a good meal every day that would also be…

What can we do to help her and the other women who are still locked up?

If young people habitually have sex in secluded rural places, abandoned buildings, etc the “fucking odds” of something bad happening are increased from them having sex in their home for fucking sure : ) When I started having sex, I knew my parents weren’t happy about it but I wasn’t about to make a habit out of…

The Zodiac Killer, Monster of Florence, etc...

Back when I used to barista, my coworker told me that coffee starts losing its flavor almost immediately after brewing so here’s a hack we came up with for freshly brewed espresso that needed to go in a cold drink: put ice in a bowl large enough that the ice surrounds the little metal pot of hot espresso. Sort of…

Sorry to nitpick, but she has stated in interviews that “Woman” was a response to Cheeto Bandito’s “grab her by the...” b.s. I’m sure it easily aligns with her experiences with her former producer and rapist of course!

You’re trained to shoot at center mass; nowhere that I am aware of trains to shoot extremities. They’re smaller targets, harder to hit, easily moved, and aiming at someone’s calf or bicep means the shot could miss and hit a bystander. You aren’t supposed to draw your gun and aim unless you intend to take someone down.…

Our society didn’t become selfish - I hate this attitude that everything was some kind of noble paradise before modern times. Women went to work in the 50s, and it’s impossible to go back to the prior model.

I was happy to come across it in this article, it’s a lovely descriptor and it’s always good to know a synonym for a common word. You would think people with bigly vocabularies would be pleased to add a new one to their options!

Catholic guilt can be a real bitch. I know a little something about it...

I don’t understand why he, as a parent living in the home, isn’t also being charged with neglect.

I’m VERY happy lol! I haven’t always had a happy sex life so it’s a lovely place of contentment these days.

I’ve only had orgasms during intercourse with one person but honestly I love how sex is so different with different partners. For example, I’m going to marry my partner within a year and no one has ever been so good at oral with me, yet for some reason I don’t get off from manual stimulation with him ever and that has…

I enjoy p in v sex but typically I have to have room to get my hand down there if I want to finish during in-out stuff. BUT. I briefly dated this incredibly skinny guy a few years ago, right? I was super attracted to him , but it was pretty dang vanilla sex so it was shocking to me that I came every time during…

My understanding is that there is no testing in place for men, and the only one for women is part of your pap smear - basically yes, screening for cancer cells. So it’s not like most STI blood/urine testing. And it’s not testing for the presence of HPV but screening for any resulting abnormal cellular growth.

There’s no reason to be judgmental and rude. Dismissing all strippers as skanky is fucking reductive, reactionary, lame, and misogynistic.

High five! I always tested when in monogamous relationships and I think other monogamous people should try it, it’s a good habit to have established for when you aren’t monogamous, it destigmatizes it for other people especially if you are comfortable and open about testing, false negatives exist, and some infections…