She’s probably safer in jail than out of it, though.

He’s built like a tank. If you don’t have anywhere to go that’s safe and he is huge and violent and could fuck you up and won’t get jail time anyway, so you are essentially defenseless, recanting is totally reasonable as an effort to protect yourself.

Yes, that’s why I am reluctant to use his books/products. I want personal finance advice, not creepy fundamentalist dominionist Christianity + personal finance advice.

The quality of the meat and produce available at Costco is far superior to what I can buy at WalMart.

hydrogen peroxide. spring for a new bottle and it'll take the stain out.

and we're translating a 3 dimensional person to a 2 dimensional image, which is also weird.

i miscarried at 18 weeks and then the next one at 20 weeks, gave up trying, got a divorce. then married someone else with the understanding we were not gonna have kids, accidentally got pregnant at age 39, and i was just terrified the entire time. my new OBGYN did a bunch of bloodwork and found out i am homozygous for…

Biotin gave me cystic acne too and when I told my derm, she acted like I was nuts. It was awful.

Yeah, I got to go to college and now I'm pretty middle class, but I still wouldn't ask my friends and family to pay for anything I didn't really need.

Yeah, I come from lower middle class people and it is understood that your friends and family don't have money either so you don't ask them to give you money so you can have shit you don't need. If you need it, then they'll help. Otherwise, go camping at the national park down the road like everyone else.

OMG ask your mom or grandma or aunts or someone for help. that's not okay to do to you.

If I had to plan a weekend away, buy new clothes, travel (often leaving my kid behind and paying for a babysitter), I would rather spend it on something I enjoy that doesn't involve Spanx. I go to a wedding to show support for the bride and groom, not because it's fun. And honestly, I can only think of one wedding…

Then become a cop. Don't play at being one.

I don't want you to defend me. I think your "defending" will likely make things worse and possibly get me killed. Stop with the "defending" of people who didn't ask for it.

Fuck that, my kid isn't playing at a house with unsecured guns. If a parent won't tell me if there are guns in the house and if/how they're secured, my kid does not set foot in the yard. I would totally use that app to screen where my child can have a sleepover, for example. Too many kids are killed by unsecured guns.

Wait, I thought your magic penis extender and boomstick rendered you instantly safe from all crime. That's why you have to take it to fucking Target, isn't it?

Oh, I was going to guess Zimbabwe because that really is an aggressively shitty place but you're talking about Romania?

It is selfish but it is also okay for her to be selfish. She is allowed to have boundaries; women aren't obligated to be Mother Teresas of fucking.

Driving. I know people who think that since they have medical cards it's safe to drive when they're high.

The women's shelter near me always always needs bras, underwear, socks and pads/tampons. I alternate buying underwear, socks, and sanitary supplies every time I go to Costco and then every couple months I drop off a couple packages of undies, socks, and pads and they are always delighted to get them at the shelter.…