jalapelena
jalapelena
jalapelena

That makes me so angry. My husband travels for work, a lot. I travel for a few days every six weeks or so. I always get questions about how I could do that and what does my family do while I’m gone, while no one asks my husband those questions.

No, they are not. Toxins are poisonous substances produced within living cells. You’re using the Food Babe definition. Which is wrong.

People are complex. You can disagree with some things people say or do, or find their perspective limited, and still understand that a loss of her partner and co-parent is a terrible experience that shouldn’t be wished on anyone and admire her eloquence. If two years from now she says something unreasonable, you can

And I did so politely.

I did just point out that you have a habit of derailing and you dismissed it, so there’s that.

Okay, I don’t intend this to be unkind, but if you want to know why people don’t react well to your comments, it’s because you take unrelated issues and make them about you. You did it when you derailed the Baltimore protest post to tell us about how your grandmother suffered under the Nazis (undoubtedly true, but

look for a TNR program. it’s a very effective way to control a feral cat population.

Oh it is so hard to be a man, tell us more how the struggle is real.

ugh, just don’t. i get your point, but then you’re going down the road of “so you’re saying a dog is worth more than a woman or child?” and that is not good for anyone. some thoughts should not be shared.

If tomahawknation told me it was raining in Tally, I would assume they were lying. That is the biggest pantload of bullshit on the internet. It is the Stormfront of sports fandom.

HIPAA says your health care providers can’t release info about your health. It doesn’t apply to anyone else.

people are allowed to set boundaries in their relationships. if that joke violates a boundary someone has set and communicated, they’re absolutely allowed to be angry and even take legal action. not hitting someone unless you are sure they’re okay with it is kind of best practice.

Yeah, how do I consent to “make me think I am going to die for real”?

Well, yeah. I have a hard boundary about hitting. My husband knows this. If he hit me, then my boundaries aren’t being respected and I’m out. Because you think it’s funny is not sufficient reason to violate someone’s boundaries.

I don’t like BDSM and I especially don’t like it as a rape survivor but I just cannot think of any way that “Feel that? I just slit your throat and you’re going to exsanguinate and die! Ha ha! PSYCH!” could ever be funny or erotic or anything but just cruel.

I’d settle for just shutting up. This post was really triggery for me, and it was my mistake for reading it but please don’t talk about hurting people during sex unless you know someone is okay with it.

cilantro is not trendy in mexico.

A personal preference is “I don’t care to wear makeup.” Telling others that they shouldn't wear makeup is not a personal preference.

I thought threading was painful. Waxing is mildly uncomfortable and so much faster.

Is your cane a functional cane or an accessory cane? I have a cane too (mine is sparkly blue) and it’s only been a year for me but it makes me feel so goddamn sexless.