That’s interesting ! Well I guess maybe I’d rather my husband cheat once but no one gets pregnant than he not cheat but someone (hypothetical) Steals his sperm and has his baby and we’re then connected for life. Babies and stds do really make cheating a lot worse (fot those who already have kids with the man…

Im only thinking taking 10 minutes to send an email would be helpful and something many “surprised” other women should consider. yes the marriage is not her main problem, and she should prioritize focusing on her own future, choices, and whatever issues she has. If she’s only thinking about contacting the wife and…

She’s been through something awful but sounds like she’s doing ok. the world who’d suck if every time everyone just did what’s easiest and less emotional work every single time.

That’s true. I don’t think there’s any benefit to her in telling (it might not even be satisfying, I wouldn’t expect the wife to thank her or send flowers), but i beleive it is the kind, helpful thing to do. And if I were the wife I would appreciate it, at some point. The wife can do better.

She will be able to start collecting evidence to have a good divorce case with more money and custody. I think it is kind and helpful to tell her.

Nope, id want to know. I haven’t been the OW. I’d want to know because it would affect my decision to stay and to have (more) kids with my husband. It doesn’t help the OW to tell, it’s a service to the wife. She shouldn’t use the wife as someone to listen to her emotions, just let her know briefly and offer proof.

Sure, then privately hearing it once from the other woman shouldn’t be a huge deal.

Me too! It would feel awful. But better to know now than later in my opinion. Tough love. It gives her the info to make good choices in her life. Especially considering it was not like one drunk kiss with his female work friend or a random in vegas. It was years of persuing a woman and lying to her, fake appartement,…

Yup! It seems likely she will know or he will leave at some point. And this is not an affair where I have sympathy for him, he seems very selfish, tricky and manipulative so he may have more partners, or will, and the wife may not be aware of his true character at all.

Yah I think those who don’t want to know are free to put it out their minds and try to forget what they heard, and the value in telling those who don’t know and would care is more important than helping people keep their heads in the sand. Are there a lot of people that would just want their husband to cheat and not…

If I were mrs hole I would want to know. Better to know before having more kids/spending more time with him.

Maybe she thought the Gucci items were from drug money thus there were dangerous people around the kids sometimes?

Too bad no pearl colour

Too bad no pearl colour

i agree with all of this! Once a lady told me her dog was like her baby, then she kissed her dog and then she told me her dog wanted to kiss my newborn son.

If you watch the video hes there! And he is overweight kind of bald it’s all very odd

Thanks for your reply

So she has holes or openings some where, her boobs aren’t even intact, this is so bizarre. She was lovely before, what an odd choice to get those low balloon boobs with gross looking cleavage, now I’m wondering if she’s made some money off being a freakshow and if it’s been worth it?

Absolutely.

She looks a lot like him yeah!

Never mind this is not safe just like diet pills it affects your heart. Why are these things legal to sell?!