Yes, that’s exactly how I wash windows. Welcome to the conversation

My bf told me last night that I am the only woman he’s ever been with who doesn’t shave her legs (or more sensitive bits) every day. I was like, uhhh, either that chick was crazy/had the least sensitive skin known to woman/is neurotic about shaving, or the ones you weren’t living with and didn’t see everyday just…

I don’t get the hate. Like...we’re in a time where so many people talk about not washing their hair everyday. And that’s a good thing! Cause it’s over-washing. But that same logic isn’t applied to legs...which don’t get nearly as sweaty as a person’s scalp. Also most of us here are women who shave every couple…

If you’re washing every square inch of your body, congratulations, you’ve been played by the beauty industry into using more products than is necessary. If we ever meet and you can tell I don’t wash my legs, I’ll give you $500. In fact, I’d bet you’ve never met a person whom you could tell didn’t wash their legs.

In a bath, you should scrub every part of your body because you are literally wallowing in your own filth. A shower? Nah, the work isn’t diner for you.

Yeah, I have never heard of doing this and I am shocked by the visceral reaction the author received in her first post.

Uhhhhh. Only psychopath clean freaks legit soap and wash their legs. This has been known since Seinfeld taught Kramer how to shower.

One of my favorite stories to tell is the time my brother-in-law came home from work and my stay-at-home sister announced that they were eating take-out because her day had been hell. He angrily responded with “What do you mean you didn’t cook dinner? What do you do all day?” She proceeded to show him — by not…

I was at a wedding recently where the 3-year-old ring-bearer was with his dad (a groomsman) and the other groomspeople all day. The kid’s mom was a bridesmaid and was with the bride.

Omg omg omg. So my husband took a day off work a few months back alleging that he would do some cleaning and laundry. Which he did like one load pshhh, I get home after working all day and he’s playing video games (in a still messy living room) and he looks at me and says, “So what are you thinking for dinner?” I…

It’s more complex than that. For example, there are men who are under the impression that they are participating in a 50/50 split at home, but it’s more like 70/30. It’s just that they were raised by a generation where the split was 90/10, so it seems more equal. There are also a lot of things that happen right around…

Exactly this. There is so much invisible work that goes into making sure a house runs. As someone who lives alone and half the time couldn’t give a shit, I don’t take care of it the way I do when I have a roommate or a boyfriend/live-in.

Everything from making sure the clothes that were washed are folded and put away…

Here’s the issue my husband believes (like literally believes) we are at 50/50 when in reality it’s more like 90/10 and it blows my mind. What was even more revealing is I tried to create a chore chart/list to create a more equal workload but so many items I was like “he won’t do that right” or “this looks like he’s…

Because a lot of dudes literally don’t see or understand the full scope of the work as a result of socialization. Women see the unequal distribution of household labor because they’re the ones doing the work. It’s like how white people don’t see white privilege because they’re the ones with the privilege. People of…

Chafee is like my favorite pair of gloves that I lost in the winter and didn’t find again until the following summer. It’s good to see you but I don’t need you right now. To the bottom of the sock drawer with you, Linc.

I’m super fed up with facts not mattering. That everyone deserves their own opinion even when it’s counter to reality. All you have to do is google what you want to know, there’s a crack-pot for every lid. Experts are denigrated for being ‘elite’ instead of being appreciated for their knowledge and hard work.

I seriously don’t know how to fight something like this.

My paternal genetic donor who is a trump supporter loves going on about the articles he reads on Facebook like they are the holy grail of knowledge.

“That’s been around forever. If you keep reporting on it, it’s going to grow like a cancer,” Paula said. “If you forget about it, it’s probably going to go away. The media has to hop on everything and it’s wrong.”

The real problem is that voting is a right, not a privilege to be taken away when you misbehave. The crowning moment was when she asked the old lady about the last time they spoke and she said that Reince “Pubis” had to go but now that he is CoS it was a smart move. These people have their narrative shaped and would…