In my case, the resentment was before the experiment (and then it was eliminated) but different strokes for different folks/genitals.

One time I was watching a TV show that I can't remember, and the therapist said the couple should simply try fucking whenever either person said so. I tried that with my boyfriend, as we were often horny at different times for some reason, and it worked pretty well. Since your situation is different it might not be…

Also, the word 'subversive' is made of magic and sparkles and means whatever you want it to mean!

I certainly don't know any young, sheltered, privileged white people *tugs at collar*but that's what many of them do before real life happens and they realise they are The Worst. I stopped when I was 16. Some people never stop.

Which is basically what Tracie said, 'cept she said it eloquently.

Humans do not 'deserve' other humans.

We are all Oprahs.

Well that's perfectly reasonable.

Newsflash: People who write words for a living like/dislike certain words. The rest of the world does not give any fucks.

I've read and I very much appreciate everyone's replies. I clicked the "Accept" button a lot, even though I have no idea what it does :)

Using that one example: when someone bumps in to me I say sorry without thinking. It makes no sense for me to apologise for something I didn't do. The guy that bumps in to me should be the one to apologise.

"Sorry" is the best word, especially when you don't mean it, and I almost never do. It can diffuse a lot of slightly tense to horribly awkward situations. You really don't have to BE sorry when you say, "I'm sorry". I think our fellow Canadians say it a lot without thinking which means you don't really mean it (and…

I'd also love to have Idris in me, I mean, in a Bond movie.

You're superhero-style flying through the air and doing it with awesome hair. Amazing.

I'm picturing you both rollerblading down the street next to each other in silent, graceful rage and it's making me pee a little.

My therapist specialises in cognitive behavioural therapy. I figure I will try that first. If she thinks I need medication I imagine she will send me to a psychiatrist. From what little I know, depression can happen because of environmental factors, chemical imbalances or both. I think mine is mostly the former but…

'Processed' is not a bad word. When I worked at a cafe/deli/bakery a man told me that his doctor said he can't eat processed food. He said he couldn't be any more specific than that. I sold him a banana and told him to find a new doctor.

I know that in one's quest to be un-depressed you have to do it for yourself and nobody can do it for you but the problem with being depressed is that you kind of hate yourself. I'm finally going to therapy and that makes my mother very happy. My mom not looking at me like I'm a ticking time bomb is the only thing…

That would be my job if I could wake up early and if I was talented. You're going to learn so much, that's very exciting.

HEIMDALL, OPEN THE BIFROST AND ALSO CASTING CALLS TO NON-WHITE PEOPLE. KTHX.