Nope. His music is bad and he should feel bad. It's Radiohead for the Muzak crowd. I change the radio in the car if it comes on, and too much Coldplay results in a new station being set.

I have this weird thing with Austen. I don’t remember if it was actually in A Room of One’s Own, or something I read as part of research at the same time, but I love that Austen had to write between caring for her family. Hiding her work under crochet I think I remember. I admire her dedication. But as much as I love…

My youngest sister is one of those girls. She is on the milder end of the spectrum. A few years ago, she clamped down on her stimming, and started cutting instead. And tried to stop eating. Luckily our other sister spotted it as it started and intervened. She is 18 now, and almost away from our parents, but she made…

You are wrong. I said, quite clearly, that it sounded like she was on the edge of dysmorphia or disordered eating. And I said that I was too skinny at that height and weight. Your reading comprehension sucks and you need to get off the podium. You are wrong, your lectures are pointless,many I'm sorry that you have…

Plenty of people with mental illness have wonderful, happy lives and get married too. And it sucks that your friend killed himself, but the way you phrase it.........can’t get a good looking date. Well, maybe he could have gotten an “okay” looking date but was too picky and entitled. The sheer volume of men who are at…

Me and my hippie household thank you!

Not to dox you but do they have an etsy store or something? I am currently in the market for organic wooden furniture.

My relationship is of the “share everything” variety. Not FB, I don’t have one and he hasn’t used his in like, a year. But the cell phone and we have each other’s passwords and PINs, that came about because of convenience. And we pretty much practice radical honesty with each other. I have massive trust issues and he…

There is a giant lecture about how lesbians can't be fixed with dick. And shaming of slut-shamers. It's a pretty bro-ey movie if you don't listen to the words. But that's kind of the point. Smith is good at writing men who are surface douchey but learn the error of their ways.

Or you could look at the context. A person that is in fact quite small and is concerned that a very small weight gain will make her look fat. Nice lecture and all but I’ve been around a lot of people with disordered eating and ignoring stuff like that or treating it as a body positive thing is dangerous. Have you ever…

Alright. But I was that skinny in six states and got complimented too. Doesn’t mean it’s healthy. Or that people who say that don't have their own issues with body perception. There seems to be a bit of a consensus in the comments, but it's your body and your choice. I hope you stay on the edge and don't fall off the…

Oh yeah the old “stand up and fall down.” Fun times. :(

Based on your numbers I’m going to say that’s probably in your head. Now if you put on like 40lbs, I think you could definitely attribute a change in treatment to your weight.

Damned Canadians hoarding all the good shit. Polar bears. Healthcare. Kittens. Murrica needs a new hat!

Have it melted down and refashioned into something else. Sell that. Donate proceeds. Maybe? I don't know, I'd toss it in the trash myself.

I’d send this to Dan Savage. It all sounds really weird and like a major dealbreaker to me. he can stay hard for a BJ but not intercourse because you remind him of his mom? That feels like a really weird lie to me.

The guy in your class? If this is the first time it has happened to you, that’s awesome. It will not be the last. Practice confident shut down phrases that make use of a teacher’s inflection. The word No is awesome.

I feel like he has the same problem with some people that Joss Whedon has. As soon as people started using the word feminist about them, they were fucked. If they aren’t perfect, or make a misstep, the backlash is out of proportion. I'm a pretty militant, angry feminist. But I really like both men, and I think they…

You are super skinny and if you are dieting to stay that way it is verging on disordered eating or dysmorphia. I am 5'7". And everyone carries weight differently but when I was 120, I was too too skinny. At the time I thought I was fine, and it was all metabolism, but looking back, it was makes sense that people…

Smoking is bad for you? On behalf of my people I thank you. We had NO idea. Either get over it or break up. Less than half a pack week is barely a smoker. Nagging him about it is pointless. AND you want him to quit drinking? Maybe find a boyfriend you don't need to fix.