So I - a person who doesn’t worry about intruders barging into her home and doesn’t keep herself armed at all times so that she can take down the bad guys - am the fearful one? WHO KNEW?

I love that because her husband was a mass murdering “patriot” she thinks her opinion should some weight.

Remember folks, if you have to wait even an hour for a device whose sole purpose is to kill other living things, then the terrorists win.

He says that she’s agreed to meet with him. That part isn’t behind his back. What he’s getting at is that she’s meeting other fans supposedly behind his back. I don’t see that as being sneaky, just that it doesn’t seem like an important enough detail to share that you’ll be hanging out with someone. If he wants open…

I wonder if she stopped telling him as much because he got all weird about it? “Why didn’t you tell me you were meeting up with a guy from Twitch????” “... Because I thought you’d freak out.” (Followed by the freakout she anticipated)

Plenty of large youtubers/streamers do host their own fan meet-ups. Even i she was meeting him one-on-one, though, I’d caution her to be careful, but I wouldn’t question her motives, or anything like that.

I presume she did tell him about that though. Worried Fan says “she has agreed to meet him.” not “she met him behind my back.” This implies that she did tell him, and that she hasn’t actually met him yet.

after she agreed to take up the sacrifices necessary for a long distance relationship.....that she is no longer doing

We’re also not seeing _her_ side of the story. We’re getting the complaints from a guy who admits to be suffering from jealousy. For all we know, this guy is tailoring the story in hopes of getting advice which reinforces how right he is and how terrible his girlfriend is being.

If he has no reason to trust her, then he should end the relationship. It’s that simple. She’s entitled to have a social life. Especially in a long distance reltationship. If he can’t handle that, the problem is still his. Either way, the blame/fault is irrelevant, but it just seems like her lifestyle isn’t something…

So he has to tell him every time she spends time with someone who isn’t him?

“What if I got my puppy from a breeder in Canada?” A small child asked in the crowd.

Yeah, he’s a dick for having that position, but that’s his position so at least he owns it. He’s not hedging or dissembling, so on the plus side, it makes it really easy to draw and contrast and say “this is what voting for Ted Cruz would mean.”

Big streamers/youtubers have fan meet-ups outside of conventions all the damn time. This guy is freaking out without having any proof at all. Hell, she trusted her bf enough to tell him about the creepy underwear guy (and her declining him) in the first place. She doesn’t need to tell him about every time she meets a…

I thought I would find overwhelming support for the advice offered to the first guy, but... I was wrong. Just because you’re in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean you get to authorize their platonic day-to-day interactions. Talking to people without your knowledge isn’t some cloak and dagger clandestine way to…

Right, because the writer saying they’ve “discovered” this means it was all hidden, deeply and deviously, and that they couldn’t have “discovered” it through simply being told during a conversation. What terrible mystery and deception!

Further, you mustn’t have had much interaction with women who are both…

“Sluts it up”

Talk about the books those women wrote. What you enjoyed about them. What you disliked about them. Recommend their books to other people. Start book clubs that feature them.

Uhh, #momgoals anyone? If I ever have a little one I’m going to see if I can twirl the kid off my nipple like pasties in a saucy Vegas show.

For some. Kids are totally into food and drinking from cups at that point. They don’t need breast milk at that age, but it’s still a bonding/comfort thing. For me, it's mostly a lazy thing, because it's the fastest way to get my 20 month old back to sleep at 3am! :)