Good for you for stopping at one and getting this done for your own health, but I will nonetheless never understand why people want to have kids in the first place.

Sorry, but this article is completely justifying and glorifying irresponsible behaviour. Unplanned pregnancies and having children that were a “surprise” is no way to bring life into the world. This is another person’s LIFE, not a game or race to “get your shit together” while waiting to pop that baby out. It’s sad…

Thank you for getting real about this. Obviously not everyone’s going to like what you’re saying, but it’s the cold, hard truth about baby-making. It’s not all puppies, rainbows, sunshine and lullabies. In fact, it’s very rarely those things.