@radio.one: You're right. I hate when women are snotty about motherhood. It's rude and it's unfair to the men in our lives. For what it's worth, many of us appreciate men like you a lot and care about what you think and how you feel.

@Kitten is an 80s rocker: Oooh! That's an excellent response! That said, I was one of those people who changed her mind - I didn't want kids, and now, I'm about to have one (much later than average, btw, which people also have opinions about), and you know what, it's my own goddamn business. Each decision was right…

Vanity portraiture is as old as time.

Isn't it a little early for a Christmas album?

It's like everything else - it depends how you do it. Honestly, it sounds like you do it in a compulsive and creepy way, but this is based entirely on your own description. If you just sort of make eye contact with lots of people during your day and nod and smile, it won't seem so yucky and subversive. It'll just…

Heidi Montag is the exception, not the rule. The vast, vast majority of women in LA do not look like her, and the vast, vast majority of doctors would be more cautious than hers was. It's ironic that the writer is from the UK, where the WAG aesthetic is much closer to the Heidi Montag look than almost any other…

@grace darling: Digressive usage answer: no, it doesn't. It's a mistake. I've noticed it here frequently as well, and it drives me crazy.

God, he looks so young...

Many people don't even disclose physical conditions or illnesses at work, let alone mental illnesses. It'd be nice if these things didn't affect how people treat you, but they do.

I gotta tell you, Meryn, when I first saw the picture, I didn't pick you out as the grenade. I thought it was someone else. So there you go.

@Zwiebel: WW isn't the cardboard food diet - that's Nutrisystem. In WW, you eat regular food.

@louisawesome: I actually think it's awesome, and btw, good for you for taking your health and well-being into your own hands in a safe, sane program! Feel good about yourself and own your fucking weight loss because you deserve it. You'll be healthier and feel better and be able to do more, and you'll be yourself,…

I'm not sure that this point is that valid anymore - most men I know cook, cook everything, and enjoy doing so. In most couples I know, either the person who likes cooking best cooks, or both partners cook. I just don't think cooking is that gendered an activity today, whereas cleaning is still more associated with…

I find this picture really charming. They look like they're having a lot of fun together.

@Kitten is an 80s rocker: Sometimes, people change their minds. There's no telling if you will or not, and I think it's unbelievably rude for people to insist that they know what you want better than you do, but you just never know. I mean, it's not like you have to do anything about it one way or another, except,…

@Leigh: Don't push it - attitudes and desires about having kids can change a lot as you get older. Please understand, I'm not at all saying that anyone will regret not having children - I'm just saying that at different times in your life, you may want different things, so keep your options open and don't make…

@KatyLou: Are they gay? (not snarking - I just can't help but notice that all the young priests I've ever met are)

@lonelyfalcon: Oh, that's the greatest movie!

@feministabroad: Me too! What? Is he in the Witness Protection program?

I don't know - I just find her look so insanely high-maintenance - she's a lot more contrived than any of those barbie blonds that everyone gets so worked up about.