indianajoan
IndianaJoan
indianajoan

Grass is always greener on the other side. Society approves of women who have children, but also provides no support to those women. There are pros and cons to having children and not having children. If you aren’t having kids, consider putting the money you would have put into raising a child, putting them through

I expected this person to be in their late 30s, but 31? No, you got plenty of time! I was on the fence for a long time about kids, but decided if I didn’t try I would regret it. It took about a year and a half to get pregnant and I was about to throw in the towel, when suddenly it happened. I’m 37 and pregnant during

I honestly think there were no “heroes” from that show, but why Carole Baskin has been villainized more than the men who not only abused animals, but people as well, is beyond me. It’s actually infuriating.

You can always tell which team Jezebel is on based on the photos they pick.

Did I make this post from my sleep?

I’m really sorry. My mom also has stage IV cancer, that recently spread to her brain and bones (was already in her lungs and kidneys). I’m also pregnant with my first and likely only child. I feel robbed in so many ways. Robbed of the time I should be able to spend with her (I can drive to see her, but I’m in a hot

Same here. People in the Bay Area are highly encouraged to have 72 hours of supplies (food and water) for yourself and pets in the event of an earthquake. Maybe that’s why people think that we tend to store more than the average person? Honestly, this whole experience has taught me that I was not prepared enough for

Yes! I can’t believe this one wasn’t included. I’ve had mine for 7 years and it still works perfectly. And while expensive, it’s actually made to be repaired (not that I’ve had one issue with mine). Paired with a good grinder, you can’t go wrong.

Yes! I can’t believe this one wasn’t included. I’ve had mine for 7 years and it still works perfectly. And while

This sounds pretty strange to me. I’m currently pregnant and in the Bay Area (more of a hot spot than Central California) and my OB has continued my care and there has not been one notice of maternity wards not being available or closed. They have cut all non-essential appointments (e.g., annual check-ups) and birth

Nurses are already stretched thin, so having a support person in the room with a laboring woman is a pretty huge benefit and I believe it could reduce deaths. Partners are often the ones advocating for care or flagging someone down because they notice something in wrong. Hospitals don’t have the capacity to have a

People’s lives have been disrupted and people working from home while also taking care of their kids don’t have as much free time to comment on articles.

I’m currently pregnant with my first. It was on my list this month to start visiting daycares and get on waiting lists. Like everything else, that won’t happen. It’s really such a strange limbo to be living in — life still moves forward with all activities just stopped. What kind of world will I be bringing this baby

Thanks for the clarification. I’ve only worked in California and didn’t realize it was a state-by-state law.

Yeah, I don’t understand this either. If they are actually laid off, then they legally have to be paid out for any accrued wages, including PTO. It’s nice that the full-time workers will have health insurance for another six months, but once again, part-time and contract workers are screwed.

Imagine if celebrities weren’t automatically prioritized for Covid-19 tests.

Hi neighbor, I’m in Alameda County too! I’m sorry you have so much anxiety. My mom has cancer, so I’m also dealing with a lot of anxiety for her in addition to my pregnancy. I was also in a centering group and was really disappointed when it got cancelled (we were about to meet with the lactation consultant too which

I’m currently 22 weeks pregnant and my county is under shelter-in-place orders. I had an OB appointment yesterday. It was a very fast physical exam and my doctor said she would follow up with a phone call in order minimize physical contact. Unfortunately, the office was out of hand sanitizer and could only hand out

I have a hard time believing your story -- who prefers Pepsi over Coke?

Everyone was behind Warren until Bernie decided to enter the race again. He could have easily stayed out, especially after having a heart attack, and threw his support behind her.

Very clever. I already said I supported Bernie, but sure, attack the people who stand with you. I’m sure that will take us far. Anyway, thanks for proving my point.