As a man who considers himself a feminist, I take stance that in many ways, this isn’t my story to tell. I try to be very careful to always use “I have been told,” “my friends say,” “I read,” etc... because for me, I want to avoid the impression that I am either the first to say a particular feminist idea or that what…

Also, addendum, it’s not about the oppressive majority’s feelings...it’s about how we are getting marginalized ppl free. So...our feelings don’t really matter in the grand scheme. :)

I generally agree that it’s frustrating when men begin to embrace feminist ideology through their relationships with women, rather than recognizing women as independent human beings deserving of equal rights irrespective of their relationships to men.

Or Mexican, in which case you’re merely a rapist.

Your last sentence is true. My uncle is Assyrian, so he looks Middleastern. His last name is David and he is Catholic, but because of his skin color and features, he has been detained/hassled when traveling and unfortunately he has to travel a lot.

Maybe the attendant would be less uncomfortable if the women had been really easily identifiable. On a government registry or something-and you knew they were registered because they wore like-I don’t know-a patch! Like a moon and star or that seems complicated! Just a star? And that way they’d know these are “good”…

What sleazy tweets about strip clubs?!

Breyer’s “courtesy” concurrence is odd, but understandable. I don’t see this case going the wrong way next year, but it may take until Spring to be resolved. Sucks for those currently being impaired but in the grand scheme of things, this progress is moving quickly.

The one concrete thing I’ve learned from the transgendered bathroom debate is that conservatives apparently spend a lot of their time in the bathroom checking out people’s junk.

Jack Antonoff is a thoroughly ridiculous human being.

The greatest magic David Blaine ever performed was getting Fiona Apple to date him.

Miranda was also a piece of shit, but not one trying to make a political statement that he specifically hoped would be famous through history. What is the issue with Lawrence?

She’s personally struggling with getting busted for being a racist? Maybe?

During her 20's, one of my friends, a hardworking young professional, dated a series of narcissistic jerks. One of these guys actually seemed like her dream at first. He was a respected attorney and a very helpful, fun, beloved-by-parents, old-fashioned gentlemen. After 1.5yrs of dating, he invited her to his hometown…

You know that once this election is over, if Donald loses, she’s history.

I did! It was great to be with him. I was so grateful every day to have such an amazing guy in my life. I think that’s what’s making this difficult to wrap my head around. Besides the weird home life story, he was the perfect boyfriend. I sort of have to process it as his death because the sweet, generous, adorable…

I hate to be blunt as fuck, but he played you for two years, and you may have to accept that to get the closure you need. Honestly, someone promising to be with you for the rest of your life and saying that they love you is an easy lie to tell. Maybe he did have affection for you, but it was never priority 1 for him.

Whoa. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. What a piece of shit. Echoing the other commenters, he’s clearly invested in saving whatever is left of his marriage and that’s it. As sad and despairing as it may be, I think you’ll have to accept the fact there’ll never be closure. It’s the worst feeling in the world but…

Yay! Enjoy your much deserved vacation! :-)

IMO- it’s not that you’re not worth an explaination, it’s that a user like him can’t stomach facing and giving an explaination to someone who is a genuine, truly good quality person. You’re so much better than him, he can’t face you now that he’s been revealed.