Thank you. There are a few other sex workers on this thread, too, and they have excellent things to say. I think more than comments on stripping, escorting, fetish work, etc. non sex workers for sure have something to add to the dialogue as plenty of people are consumers of porn or are partnered with someone who is.…

It’s really scary! I used to think it was something that would only live in my head until I sort of accidentally stumbled upon the people I started out playing with, about 15 years after I knew it was something I wanted. Even then it took about a year after my first Daddy scene before I would add it to my Fetlife…

Thank you and yes to everything you said.

Thank you. I’ve actually put a moratorium on dating for the indefinite future in the hopes it will put a mute button on the shame spiral a bit. And if the ban never gets lifted, that will be ok I think.

Thank you for reading it!

Thank you. She has shown me much love and devotion right back. She is The Best Cat (along with all the other Jezzie cats, of course).

Hello! I did not expect to see as many people familiar with/ok with/into DD/lg stuff here. It is so awesome to see!

Thank you for such a thoughtful response. It was helpful to read this.

Ha, yes maybe. I think I’ve filled up all the spots on my venting punch card though (hence the anonymous Internet dump). Getting drunk sounds like maybe a good plan though!

Thank you. Stuck is definitely the word for it! I tend to chase my tail around the self-kindness thing. I often kind of don’t understand it, as it feels like what have I done to deserve that/if other people don’t value me why should I kind of thing, but then I also don’t want to depend on/expect others to take up the…

Exactly. I used to be stuck on only playing with people older than me but that’s definitely changed. It bums me out to see so many Daddies wanting very young girls, though. Hopefully some will have the kind of change of heart I’ve had!

None of my shit is nearly as bad as everyone else’s but:

Or just a kinky relationship in general? I feel like I am going to get burned at the stake for this, but it’s something I’ve done in my personal kinky life. I don’t ever really talk about it - it took me years to mention it even on a kink site! - because people get really pissed/squicked/judgy about it.

Omg the moths sound like your own personal horror movie. I am so sorry that you had to deal with that on top of everything else and I hope they go the fuck away ASAP.

This response is in response to the comments, not to the article itself.

How is this case still a news maker? Won’t these shows just be rehashing what is already known?

That is awesome! Moving targets are so hard! My niece is 19 months old and has puffs most of the time because she is the wiggliest. There’s an app where you can “call” Elmo that she’ll play with but he can only hold her interest for about 5 minutes before she tells him “bah-bah” and hangs up on him like Meryl Streep…

Wow. Between the “pro-rape” comment in 2013 and the sore comments here....this guy is really awful. Like beyond misogynist and into a whole other level.

Yepppp. My ex, who like Trump has narcisstic personality disorder, live tweets his AA meetings. Twitter is catnip for people who need attention all the time no matter the subject/confidentiality.

“The implications for her family.” Is he implying that it’s somehow their fault or does he mean the hole it left in their hearts and lives?