I wrote out a whole thing for this but then I realized I don’t want to drag all that up again.

Suffice to say: good riddance.

This is pretty innocuous in the grand scheme of things but I had had it with a “friend” who took joy in trying to diminish me publicly online. I sent him a private message that read “You know, it’s been years since I’ve had a pleasant experience with you and I don’t think we need to be friends anymore.”

Short, sweet,…

There is a person in my building with whom I was once very close, but turns out that they, probably mostly out of boredom and general not having a life, not really malice, decided to become a behind-my-back shit-stirrer.

I gave this friend a “backstage pass” into my life, which means to me: I don’t clean up before you come over, I’m super open and honest, I share, I show up for you. I loaned her all my black tie clothes for events, got her set up with people that could help her, went for walks with her, listened to her troubles,…

It’s a *lengthy* tale covering 10+ years of extremely toxic friendship, but the point at which I decided I was DONE was when she banged a mutual friend’s boyfriend, was somehow astonished that I was not cool with her actions, and was even more astonished when someone asked me a couple years later if she had done that…

I’m both impressed and slightly disappointed that you didn’t drag it out further. If this were a Rom-Com, I’d watch it.

1996: Frenemy and I stayed up all night on coke. At one point she tearfully confessed that she’d fucked my boyfriend shortly after he and I had started dating - not because she liked him, but because she was “jealous.”

The Trolls Are Alright

20 bucks she has a word of the day calendar with a reprint error.

Her perky “let’s empower women globally!” shtick really gets on my nerves. You know what would empower women globally, Ivanka? How about women’s health and birth control education and care, which would keep women from being dragged down by endless children they may not want or be able to afford (and from the serious…

“Save the Planet, Eat the Children Rich.”

This kind of information warfare works especially well in societies in which the public education system is designed to fail its citizens. 

Thank you for succinctly describing the sheer awfulness of that look! I could not agree more.

I just want to talk about how much I hate this trend with the all-nude clothes.  I hate the ruched nude bodycon dress, and I doubly hate it with those atrocious nude, ruched fugly boots!  I blame that menace family the Kardashians for making people think all-nude is an acceptable look!  Harrumph!  Get off my lawn!

You mean....

They say, once you come out, you never start coming out.

I’ll just go ahead and out myself. I liked this show in the same way I like Gotham, Riverdale, the later seasons of Supernatural, or Sabrina. No one asked for it, but I didn’t turn it off either.

I wish I didn’t love this show, but I do. It’s silly, campy and it doesn’t take itself seriously at all. If Big Bang theory can get 1,000 seasons, I don’t mind a dumb show like this getting a 2nd. 

Can we please, please, PLEASE have text-only versions for those of us who aren’t able to watch videos? Pretty please?