You’re a former resident of Philadelphia burning in hell?

You’re from Philadelphia. It’s just a guess.

Ugh, they’re into gun play? forget’em then.

made you look!

Wait now I’m confused—much of the article is about how Conchita thinks of himself as a man, “in a dress.” Wouldn’t the proper pronouns be he/him? I honestly don’t know the answer, so just curious!

I am confused for the opposite reason. You explicitly quote him identifying not as trans, but a man in a dress. Why not masculine pronouns then?

Usually either pronoun is fine with drag queens.

On behalf of so many ladies, let me just be the one to say the obvious, “awww, damn it”

Yes, there are provable links:

It’s hard to find a hint of impropriety when the whole thing is shrouded in secrecy.

She’s saying:

I was expecting her to talk about Harriet Tubman not being the ideal person to represent capitalism, and I can understand that...but this...what did she say? I have no idea what she means.

It’s like someone cursed him to only speak in the rambling, incoherent gibberish that comedians use when they do impressions of him.

Dan Savage is actually a pretty cool guy, despite what some people have said here. He has a history of making some harsh comments about different groups, but because he is a white man with all the privilege that implies, his apologies about reversals of opinion that he has had over the years (ie women and their…

That’s just such a crazy broad statement. I’m a lesbian-identified bisexual, so I guess I get to check off two of those boxes. I don’t love Savage 100% of the time, and sometimes I’ve yelled at his columns, but I’m just baffled by the idea that he’s done me “a TON of harm.” I know kajilions of people who were softened…

Everyone’s fave is problematic!

Yeah.... I only started listening to him last year, but if it weren’t for his sensitive and humorous take on male bisexuality, I don’t know if I would have been able to come to terms with my bi boyfriend (he came out several years into our relationship, after we took a break during long distance).

Dan Savage’s TAL segment where he talked about his mom’s death was one of the most heartbreaking, but lovely things I ever listened to.