No one said that he is not partially responsible. He shamed her. This video pushed her over the edge, probably. I mentioned that several times. Ergo, he is somewhat responsible. He is definitely indirectly responsible. No one is exculpating him.

Because YOU were the one who said it was ‘lifelong’ abuse. This is what you said in your post, as a first reply to me:

How are her other issues irrelevant here? It is a factor of all.

I agree with you. Being stigmatized is never healthy.

Cancer aetiology and mental health disorders are completely different. Why would you even compare these issues?

Cutting someone’s hair against their will is NOT lifelong abuse. It could point to systematic abuse, but there is no evidence in the video suggesting that. Are there any articles pointing to lifelong abuse?

What makes you say the father is a abuser?

I agree with your input. Although I will not agree with the term ‘jumble of mess’. Some 13 year olds are very well adjusted.

What made you think I was mitigating the father’s guilt? Didn’t I mention shitty parenting? or did you skim through my post and hurried to post yours to make a point?

Unless you and I have medical evidence, the likelihood of both of us being right is quite small.

That is what I said. Not entirely responsible, but somewhat responsible.

It’s not a question of If. There were underlying issues. Probably due to bullying, shitty parenting etc, or more factors. A lot of times mental disorders run in the families,parents passing it on unknowingly. Children don’t know how to cope with it, because the parents remain undiagnosed, and the entire family…

We don’t know that, and you could be right. But people with shitty parents don’t always commit suicide. There are underlying issues.

Or don;t have to sacrifice their time, money to this horseshit, or let their lives and their identity governed by it.

I would like to post a reply to you, but your reply is so full of....nonsense.

There are not clear cut signs before anyone does this. Even if there are, not everyone is equipped to observe and report them.

I don’t think his public shaming was entirely responsible. She had other issues.

Public shaming is never good. Especially if done on the internet.

That should be applicable to everyone, with regards to career, education and being an overall better person. Not looks.

She is in denial. Denial of the real-life consequences of his actions. Denial of how crazy her family was and is.