Rich is a pretentious dick. Bobby is great, very different. Mark is fabulous and neither compare.

That’s great to hear! I hope my son loves it too. I have so many movies I want to share with him and hope he is a fan of.

Oh my siblings and I adored that movie! I got it in the cheap bin and and can’t wait to share it with my son when he’s older. Lars was so hilarious. And so was Tim, the formerly fat counselor.

That’s the little Syrian boy who drowned trying to get away from the conflict isn’t it? I bawled for days after seeing his picture in the news. He’s the same age as my son. So young. So sweet. I’m going to cry again. Dammit.

This.

I don’t think that’s an anomaly. The death of enclosed malls is happening all over. I lived in cedar rapids iowa and we had two malls. Westdale, the older (and more like the mall pictured) is being torn down to become an outdoor strip mall center. Lindale is still chugging along though the traffic to malls isn’t what…

Feminists to male allies: use your voice! Speak out to other men. Lead by example. And when you misstep, apologize and learn from us about where you went wrong then do better.

But do we have as large of a platform? He’s an actor on two wildly successful shows. His reach is further because of his celebrity. I mean, how many times has this site dragged women through the mud for refusing to declare they are feminists or when they say they prefer humanists?

Right? The biggest complaint I see about him seems to be that he’s doing the feminism thing for praise and attention. At some level, we all want praise for doing the right thing. But he’s not just basking in that praise, he regularly says “not me, I shouldn’t be in the spotlight, here’s someone or something that…

You are all over these comments and pretty hostile towards him too. It’s odd.

I have run across these people too. (Mostly white men under 35.) I just try to calmly and rationally point out that though things would be beyond awful for a huge chunk of the population during a trump presidency, our country would probably survive. However, if trump even nominates ONE supreme court justice, we’re all…

That is so insane and horrifying on so many levels! So first, the assumption is made that that the adult currently alive human being’s life and freedom is less important than the fetus. Then, in claiming to protect said fetus, they can throw the woman in jail with no prenatal care?! How does anyone read that and…

Are you serious???? That’s insane and seems completely unconstitutional. Even when a mentally ill person is committed somewhere, they need people to submit to a judge reasons, and at least in Iowa, they can’t be held longer than three days without a hearing before a judge. And then because of hospital psych wards…

Aww shucks. Compassion and kindness were just the main virtues my parents emphasized and modeled as I grew up.

Agreed. I like to feel that I’m doing something. I actually ask my therapist for “homework” so I can practice. I don’t mind talk therapy but I need goals and skills or it doesn't sink in.

Thanks. I love my son m more than anything, but I think had I felt like I really had other options, I would have chose differently.

CBT is a great form of therapy. The modified form DBT is wonderful as well if you can find someone specialized in it. I think finding a therapist that is trained in a number of therapies is beneficial, because if you have a good report with them but the therapy isn’t clicking, they can adjust to something else that…

Why aren’t abortions done at other clinics and hospitals? This is the party I don’t get. I fully understand (and love) that women’s clinics exist, but since abortion is a regular medical procedure I don’t understand why all ob/gyns and primary care/family physicians aren’t trained and provide it as part of the number…

This pisses me off so much! And I bet these fuckers are the same ones whenever a mass shooting happens cry out “the answer is more mental health care!” While not actually taking any action to find or implement that help.

That seriously is fucked up. Based on my doctor’s figures on conception, I got pregnant about a week after a very serious suicide attempt. The medication that works for me (but I can’t always get because its not generic and insurance companies hate paying for non-generic meds) had not been approved for pregnant women.…