All of what you are saying is just coming across as incredibly sociopathic, you're not listening to anyone, and although you may think you're pulling all these impressive gotchas, and your arguments are really weak. Although you are pretending not to, you have to understand what people are saying or you would be in…

Why don't you invest a bit more time explaining how harassment is the victim's fault? Or perhaps you could consider taking your head out of your ass instead?

I'm queer and I have quite conflicting feelings on the whole matter at hand, but I think it's pretty offensive to tell us what we should think or that we should be ashamed based on the little snippets of information you gleaned from"real life gay people on [your] facebook feed". Seriously, do you not realize how…

Ok, I didn't word it as carefully as I should have. There is a strong association between childhood abuse and neglect and diagnosis of personality disorders as an adult. Personality disorders are complex and not all that well understood. However, they vary quite a lot, and etiologies should be researched for each…

Our experiments provided support for the notion that making shopping choices helps to restore a sense of personal control over one's environment, and thus helps to alleviate sadness.

Wouldn't it be perhaps more helpful to turn our attention to those who should have won? I feel like it's maybe counterproductive to keep paying attention to the straight white dude because we are mad that people only pay attention to straight white dudes.

A lot of people have already addressed the inherent misogyny in the way this often plays out in real life, so I don't really feel the need to explain that again here. I guess the way I look at it is that if you value someone enough to want to be in a romantic relationship with them, I don't understand why you wouldn't…

If you are rude to people, it's generally not realistic to expect them to then turn around to do all the work for you and hand deliver it to you.

I think sometimes people don't stop to consider deeper meanings of actions. I also think that people tend to think that the people they are choosing to spend their time with are on the same page as they are. I'm not going to guess at the intentions of the woman from your example, but I can compare it to my experiences…

Personality disorders are very much dependent on environment and in many cases (not just ASPD) may develop in large part due to early childhood trauma. I don't have a source because this information is very easy to obtain from a shitton of sources. It's widely accepted.

Goddamn, friendship shouldn't ever be considered phase 1 of courtship. That's really weird.

YES. Bonezoned is definitely the best (relatively clean) one.

Thank you so much for this.

Lol, it's pretty obvious that you're having a tough time conceptualizing what it's like being a woman here.

OMG, thank you. Fucking seriously.

Ok, so if a guy friend was pushing to pay for everything, personally, I wouldn't allow that (I wouldn't want that from someone I was dating either). I would think it was weird, but would I think that he was doing it because he was trying to show me that he wanted to be romantically involved? Not necessarily. Shit is…

You are so full of shit here with this argument. Guys don't get blue balls or whatever for having platonic friendships with hot ladies.

I think maybe you will understand better if you can somehow find a way to realize that women are people in the same way that men are people.

No, it's totally stupid. It means, "I really want to be close to you as a person, but only if you let me stick my dick in you." It doesn't make sense.

I think it is sad when one person isn't able to move past a rejection by someone close and the friendship ends. I think this is a little but different than what we are talking about, though. People who talk about friendzoning usually just become friends with someone to try and get together with them and then get…