Really, you think this is the appropriate time to break out Godwin's law? Right here? You want to compare keeping spaces free from dehumanizing slurs or harassment to Nazi Germany? Are you fucking kidding me???? And you are using the term "welcomes debate" as a descriptor for places with abuse and hate speech? Because…

This reads more like an illustrated guide to Stockholm Syndrome. So tragic and enraging.

Ok, I'm not feeling as emotional as that may have sounded, BUT IT'S WORSE THAN ALL THE BROKEN RAINBOWS AND SAD PUPPIES EVER.

I think it really depends on the region. I agree that it's mostly older guys in the Pacific NW who are like this, but since I moved to Texas (a major city, too) I've heard all kinds of sexist crap from guys (a few days ago, my friend's bf walked into the Faberge exhibit, looked at one clock made for Nicholas II and…

I really don't think that's necessarily true. I was friends with one of my exes for six years before we ever dated, and the attraction was mutual from the beginning. It's just the timing wasn't right, and when it was at first, we didn't want to risk messing up the friendship. In fact, a large portion of people I've…

I agree that her choices are her choices, and I don't know what doing sex work or getting plastic surgery have to do with her ability to be a proper mother.

Well, Veganaise is the brand. It's a little sweet, but not as much as MW. If you guys eat a lot of mayo, I would recommend trying to make it. There are a ton of recipes online. Both mayo and vegan mayo are easy to mess up when you're first learning, which can be frustrating because you have to start over, but…

Have you learnt nothing?

I don't mind Amanda Peet's dress. It looks sort of like a sheer Gunne Sax.

It's rough work, crusading for healthy alternatives, if my experience as the Hildegard of Bingen of Vegannaise has taught me nothing else.

It's a lovely idea, but it's hilariously and almost offensively out of touch.

Sure it will work:

Ok, millions of years of evolution have programmed us to be sensitive to and aware of threats to our safety, and people belonging to marginalized groups especially so because we face potential threats so much more often than everyone else and learn to be hyper-vigilant to things such as tons of people hurling…

I left a message too that was very similar, and a lot of people are battling the trolls, which may actually help in this case if she can see how many people care and are against bigotry. My heart really goes out to her; she's really amazing and brave, but these assholes are being traumatically abusive and she's just a…

Thank you. This is an amazing piece.

I believe the word you're looking for is 'psychopath'.

Sorry, I meant "you" generally, but I see that it looked like I meant it personally. Poor choice in words. Regarding naïveté, I think that's sometimes difficult. I know it's a bit of a different situation since it doesn't involve cheating, but after my parents divorced, the first relationship she had with a man other…

Good luck finding your trophy/narcissistic supply, dude!! I'm sure all the beautiful, intelligent, highly functional type B high achievers will be lining up just begging to subjugate themselves for the rest of their lives in order to meet all of your needs.

I think you have to be very careful when you blame the person who isn't married, because in most cases you will be making a lot of assumptions that may not be true. I feel that a lot of the time, the person who was cheated with gets the majority of the criticism, and they are the party with the least information to…