Right? I was so depressed when I discovered this book (yesterday). Then I saw this article :/

I've been cutting my hair for over 10 years, and for me, shorter is always a bit easier, as long as I'm not trying to do a blunt cut. It takes longer than it would at a stylist, and there is a knack to using mirrors, but I don't think I've ever had a stylist do any better. I do think that the more expensive the…

...and here I had thought this book was pointlessly gendered.

I think you've totally nailed it. It reminds me of my clubbing years and all of the craziness, but there was a sense of personal empowerment that I found within the mess and trashiness that was electrifying.

I'm not sure why you are helping the developers by linking to this.

I get why it bothered you. It did me too, a bit, but I think she was more talking about people who don't have social skills finding comfort in pretending there are rules and structures to reality that predict outcomes with 100% accuracy and how that can lead to depersonalizing others and seeing things in terms of what…

I agree. It's kind of a mess but I can dig it.

That was very smart. All the literature I've seen says that abusers can be especially dangerous during a break-up, and that was definitely the case with my ex. I'm glad you got out safely.

I agree, but just typing "gang rape" into a search engine without any caveats is probably not the best approach to finding consensual role-play videos.

PUAs, this Bud's for you.

The best wedding I've been to was basically a huge barbecue at the lake. I made a 12 hour playlist for it and there were still a lot of guests partying when it ended.

Motherfuck. I've wasted hours browsing for movies to put in my queue for years.

I thought maybe it was what always happened when type A/overachieving bankers and fashionistas go out on a Bond St. first date together.

Your friends sound very formal.

"So when the odd date does come around I am left helpless and desperate to please."

Orgasm, Inc. anyone?

It's a bummer. In the last year and a half I've become friends with people a bit farther from my age, and I've become very close with one woman who is 24 and another who is 43. I still miss my 30s friends, but I really care about my new ones and it's nice to know people with greater availability and reliability.

I'm sorry you had that experience. My uncle has been in a state hospital several times and it was horrific. It's worlds away from the type of care provided at places like McLean or Menninger, but unfortunately, insurance usually doesn't cover a stay at either of those places, and as they charge more than $1000 per…

Jezebel has a history of sometimes being unkind towards celebrities dealing with mental illness, and I'm not exactly sure why. I will second that not everyone who checks in to a mental health facility is sucicidal, manic, or suffering a full-blown breakdown. Medication adjustments are tricky, and if someone has the…

I know they are, and I think that sucks. What you are not getting is this is not about MALE tears. This is not even close to being about laughing at men for showing sensitivity. actually, it's making fun of an extraordinary lack of sensitivity. If someone is going to cry because they can't have their way 100% of the…