I have been on a search for pretty, comfy, non-underwire bras that come in small band sizes and large cup sizes. I have finally found a company with bralettes and non underwire bras for curvy girls. I’ve bought several, and this one is my favorite. It looks amazing and is comfy.

Specifically...how do you find them. I am thinking of breaking my lease with 60 notice and just paying any penalties. I’d like to save some money by moving into a shared house or town house with a roommate or someone renting space in their own home. I have never done this. I have lived alone or with a romantic…

I’ve recently realized that always expect the worst from everyone. I understand why and what about my past has led to this. It makes sense in the context of my life even if some of it is clearly irrational. I am dating someone who is, it seems, a sweet and kind person. Even though our relationship is casual and we’ve…

Morning. I am still exhausted from pneumonia so having a hard time staying as busy as I like. I got some bad news and had a very weird/surreal a dating experience. I am in a weird head space and my go to of excercise or hiking os off the table. Talk about anything. Recommend a good book or t.v. show to distract me. Or…

So I made a choice not to talk about my marriage online much anymore about 9 months ago. I wanted to do some deep reflection and really work on deciding what I wanted vs just complaining and getting brief satisfaction or validation from the empathy and support. I appreciated it. It saved me many times, but I reached a…

Has anyone here asked for a received the hpv vaccine over the age of 26? I’m thinking about it, but curious about the experience of others. Wondering if it will be easier to talk to my gyn or go to planned parenthood. It’s been a long time since I gave this sort of thing much thought.

I have always (probably unfairly) felt deeply annoyed with femme & cis women in relationships with men (typically who have only been and will only be in relationships with men), who make a big deal about being bisexual. I know it’s wrong. Please don’t feel the need to tell me how wrong it is.

Whelp. After a long and crazy year, I've totally exhausted myself. Also, I've been acting like I have the energy of a 25 year old in my social life. Now I am utterly exhausted and have pneumonia. I am so tired, but I feel so bad I can't sleep so I am tired and bored. Yeah insomnia!

Went in to work very early so came home early. Fell asleep around 4pm and slept until 8:30pm. Now I'm wide awake. Just poured a glass of wine. My sleep is so fucked.....talk about whatever.

I am pretty much always awake between 2am-4am.

I have a long weekend looming without enough plans (my 4th of July plans fell through). Tell me your fun weekend plans or talk about anything.

I need recommendations for a moderate NYC sunday brunch for 2 this weekend. I am staying in midtown, but can go somewhere else in Manhattan. My last NYC trip was built almost 100% on recommendations from GT and it was amazing.

So funny that I haven’t been to pride in years, and now I am going to two. In addition to DC pride, I get to go to NYC pride. My company is sending us to march so travel and hotel are covered. Looking forward to it and a weekend away! Tips from anyone who’s been there. We have an organizer so I assume I will get…

Surprised to say, I am having a blast. I got a ton of warnings from my girlfriends (especially when they heard that I would also consider dating men), but they overestimated how delicate I am. Yeah, people are weird and gross and flakey. I have had some great conversations, great dates, met people for hiking, and…

I am going this year for the first time. Tips? Advice? I have only been to pride in a smaller city and it was very different. Not sure what to expect in terms of crowds or getting there via metro.

I don't have anything in particular to share. I am just happier than I've been in years. I'd love to hear some good news or positive updates. I haven't been around much and miss you guys.

Date 1 - fucking shit show

It was weird and horrible. I survived. I feel better now.

My legal ties and financial obligations to my wife are still complicated and will be for potentially years to come. So I was avoiding it. However, my recent preoccupation with a flakey crush/hook up was a wake up call (sorry you had to hear so much about it - I regressed to being 14).

What's up?