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When we were planning our wedding, my now husband would devote time and thought to produce fantastically idiotic “ideas” for the wedding just to irk my type-A groove, like “let’s hire a falconer to release a trained falcon at the end of our ceremony and then it will reappear at the reception!”

This is identical to how every conversation that involves an idea my bf has goes, so I cant imagine how wedding planning will eventually go. Bf: I have an idea (explains really difficult and expensive but potentially awesome idea). Me: amazing! WhY don’t you research your idea, price it out and then we can decide...

Agreed! My husband and his mother did pretty much everything to prepare for our wedding - I took on the traditional groom’s role of “picking out what I’m going to wear and occasionally weighing in on colors/flowers/food when asked.” I had to defend my master’s thesis the semester before our wedding and event planning

In this situation, he totally was, and I told him as much. He puts up with my most annoying qualities, so this is the thing I put up with.

God I am with this guy so much. I got so much flack from friends and family simply for caring about how my wedding went. Fortunately my wife was into compromising and actually wanted my input, but the number of times people told me to just do whatever she wanted and show up was crazy.

My husband wasn’t that unreasonable or cavalier (I’m not sure what the right word would be) about the restrictions and or limitations of certain places...he just had bad wedding taste. He went to the very expensive and ‘super fucking elegant’ wedding of a good friend a few years prior and basically wanted to copy

My husband planned our wedding- he was off work sick, I was working full-time - it made sense for us. The only “groomzilla” thing he did was insist on an enormous and spectacular bouquet for me. I am v short and thought it was too much ( very long and trailing). It was beautiful. Fast forward 12 happy years and 2 kids

That sounds fun! My post-wedding event will be a girl-bonding exercise where me and my five closest gal pals bury my husband’s body and clean up the crime scene. I’m thinking we’ll all shoot at him so we’ll never know for sure whose bullet did the killing and share equally in the blame (and maybe guilt? Have to wait

My husband, who later showed himself to have very strong opinions about weird wedding details, made fun of me for a while for being a “bridezilla” because I just wanted to get stuff done. Like, we need to pick out a venue THIS WEEK so we can get the date we want. Can we look at venues? Set a budget? GET SHIT DONE???

My husband was actually a little groomzilla-y in that he is very picky but didn’t particularly want to do the work. I wasn’t terribly wedding obsessed but I did start to develop some opinions and a general vision, but so help me - if I did not run things by him (down to the stenciling I did on the centerpieces) he

That’s not a groomzilla, that’s a fucking terrible human.

My husband has been married once before and I didn’t realize how little say he had had in his first wedding until we were discussing clothing. “I guess I’ll rent a tux,” he said glumly.

He isn’t my friend. Rather he is a friend of my husband’s who we never see anymore, but they still work together so he receives the daily download of how much he despises his fiancee and how miserable she makes him. I am spared having to hang out with him (surprisingly, he is a really nice, just terribly flawed,

strike a similar chord to a man proclaiming that his emotional state makes him “the woman in the relationship.”

I agree with you. I asked my bridesmaids to pick their own dress and just told them what color and asked that it be in the knee length range. Cake smashing is a horrible tradition that should die forever. We will eat our cupcakes in a happy neat way damnit!

It’s my FAVORITE! I also love when people tell my husband it’s so sad he works all day and then “has to” cook for me. Nevermind that he loves to cook and I clean up and we tackle our household as a team based on strengths not genitals. FUN.

My husband was entirely involved in every decisions about everything to do with the wedding (other than what I was wearing). Honestly, I did find it frustrating at times, because I occasionally had a pretty clear idea of what I wanted and sometimes that clashed with his equally clear idea of what he did not want, but

My husband was the one pushing for A Wedding and I gave in because while I had been a bridesmaid roughly 800 times (ok, 6) and was wedding’d out, it didn’t, like, cause me actual pain and or anything. And he was insanely helpful. He’s a designer and has the most amazing eye and was able to get a lot of the decor,

Seriously, are my wife and I delicate unicorn snowflakes because we sat down before our wedding, calmly examined our budget, discussed what we wanted and compromised rationally?

I know a real-life groomzilla. He is obsessed with attention and as he has gotten older he seems to demand it even more as he gets less and less. In his late 20’s he was married to an older women and he used his managerial position to fuck countless, and I mean countless (though he thinks it is around 40-50) different