That’s exactly why I chose it :p “STELLLLLAAAAAAA”. So funny :p

Masturbate. With anything/everything (that’s safe). Or just sex the hot things.I would love to get off my hormonal birth control because between that and my SSRI my sex drive has taken a plummet (still higher than my partner’s though) and I don’t enjoy sex as much :( Yay for you though! My partner insists on doubling…

Honestly: no. That’s like saying “can someone straight become gay? Can someone gay become straight?” etc etc. The answer to that is no. It’s possible that there might be something undiscovered sexually which might lead someone straight to start identifying as bi, but you’re born that way as far as I’m concerned. If…

Can you go to see a good physio? It’s possible the because the way you used the sleep is so different from sleeping in a bed in both support and position that your muslces might need to be mobilised in order to losen up again and adjust to this new spot. Even if this is not the case a Physio is definitely the place to…

I have exactly the same philosophy and I have had to put in into practice previously with my horse. I wouldn’t hesitate to do the same again. Sometimes I feel that vets are a bit like Doctors: they can get so caught up in trying to preserve a life that they overlook the quality of it. I would have an honest and frank…

I’m so sorry that you and your Mum are going through this, it must be so hard for both of you. Do you want to move back to NY? Do you think that doing that (if you could) would be the best thing for you or would you regret it? I don’t know how the American system works but would your Mum be able to apply for a carer…

He could definitely be interested, just from an outside perspective. It isn’t uncommon for men to feel entitled to younger women and not see the age gap as as much of a problem as some of us do. Do you want to be friends with this guy? Or just distant aquaintence that you can briefly acknowledge with a nod when you…

Good luck, it definitely sounds like you’ve made up your mind. For what it’s worth I think that his Mum is a bit of a manipulator. She has choices and chooses not to take them so she can be dependent on him/you. The crying on the phone because you “don’t like her” is some highschool level shit when all you want is…

Congratulations! I’m baby crazy at the moment so I would probably get super jealous and try to “borrow” it :p Kidding! Kind of :p How exciting for your family and you! Try to relax, if you like babies then you get to have one around that you can hand back for all the stuff you don’t want to do, and if you don’t then…

Urgh. I hope your night got better!

I don’t have an ex but I went through an obsessive period linked to my mental health of searching my partner’s exes on Facebook. That was incredibly unhealthy, he only has one serious ex who dumped him three years ago and he isn’t Facebook friends with any of them. That was not healthy for me. At all. As for searching…

Omg that sucks! Congratulations on your marriage and pregnancy though! I would have flipped my shit at that officiant, did you have to pay them? I hope not! It’s good you can see the funny side so early on, maybe in a few years you can twist it into an awesome story?

I’m so glad that you’re staying safe, it sounds like you’re very sensible and although I didn’t comment I have been thinking of you and your situation. I had a guy (much older than me, a security guard) at my retail job when I was 16 do a similar thing by corning me and asking me out when I was walking alone to my car…

Yeah it sounds like you’re ready to me! All things going the same I think I’ll be in your position in a few years :p How exciting if you do decide to go ahead!

I’m in the same boat: the difference is I’m 22. This guy is awesome in almost every other way and I’ve never felt so comfortable to be myself with anyone before (including my family). Whilst our sex drives aren’t super removed I do worry that he’s in his sexual peak at 23 and it’s all downhill from here. We have…

I’m late to the party but I want to share too! We have Tali (1yr old kitty), Stella (5 month old puppy), and Loki and Smudge (approx. 2yrs old ferrets).

My puppy is called Stella too!

Also: movies. WTF people?

Yeah a teamate would be the biggest thing. From the sounds of things you’re in a great position if you choose to go ahead, and from what you’ve said you are far more “adult” than some 33yr olds I know! I definitely want to wait for marriage personally too, and I think it would be nice to be married for a while before…

Haha for what it’s worth I think 27 is young! I think the criteria seems to change depending on the topic. If you have kids at 22 you’re young but if you lose your virginity at 22 that’s considered “old”. If you have a kid at 40 that’s “old” but if you pass away at 40 that’s young. Probably shitty and incoherent…