Yay! You’re welcome :) Is your name a musical reference btw? Either way I love it :) Good luck with your day!

Um... that sounds like my life in general, menstrual cravings or not :p My current (non-premenstrual) craving is brownies. I made some two weeks ago and my partner and I ate the entire tray in about 24hrs. I’m not very disciplined with cravings if they’re per-menstrual, I usually just think “well I’m going to spend a…

How about hosting afternoon tea? That’s what we’re doing today for Mum, although she’s not as much like yours. Being young and not having much money she doesn’t like it if we organise something that costs a lot so my 14yr old sister is making scones and we’ll have a Devonshire Tea party with a couple of small things…

Yes I agree! It was awesome! I’m really curious about everything to do with sex whereas my partner is not (despite him being my first and he having sex with other people previously). I started watching it without him then decided it would do him good to see what else is out there, and it has sparked some great…

Yuck. Does it get on your brother’s nerves too? Maybe next time he could say that it’s just “sibling time” and she can stay at home. I hope you feel better for complaining, and that you’ve calmed a little bit more by now! People like that get on my nerves, but it takes all types etc etc. Hopefully next time she…

Oh awesome, I’m getting an English Working Cocker Spaniel on 16th of May! I love the Springers, they’re on my list :) I actually looked at Corgis too and they came pretty close! Definitely a future dog somewhere down the line when I have a better vacuum cleaner :p Both lovely dogs you have, and so great to have them…

Aw, gorgeous! What breed is she if you don’t mind me asking?

I don’t think it’s normal at all. Surely the kid must have seen that somewhere or had someone say it to him? Good on you for that, it is so isolating when you feel like you can’t tell someone about something that has happened, and it’s often just because no-one has had a frank discussion with you about it. It’s so…

How do boys that young even hear of things like that or how does that even occur to them? I just don’t understand! It makes me so fearful that regardless of what gender child I have I will have to worry about them either saying something like that or having someone else say it to them. Good on you for having that…

I’m probably WAY too late, but when I was 18 I went for a walk with my little sister (10 years old at the time) to the local shop (note: I’m short, have large boobs and a fairly prominent butt). Three boys around 12 came riding around us on bikes and followed us back for a bit (we ignored them). When we stopped to…

I had no idea people watched it who weren’t in Australia!

What city were you in just out of curiosity?

Good luck! I’ll be wishing you luck from across the globe :)

Definitely not Cat, and please don’t doubt that! Best of luck for the future :)

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I might be completely out of line here, but it is possible that your sister is struggling with depression or anxiety? It sounds like it could be difficult for her to see her friends getting married and having children if that’s something she wants and maybe has low self esteem which is contributing to her negativity…

Honestly, it’s completely up to you if you tell them I think. First things first: see if you click with this person in the flesh. If not, it’s a moot point unless you really want to have sex in which case go right ahead. As what I thought was an “old” virgin myself a couple of years ago (probably wasn’t but urgh,…

That’s a very common reaction to sexual assault Cat, especially unconsciously. I agree that therapy is the way to go. If it takes you a while to find the right psychologist please don’t give up, there are good ones out there who will help you in a way that works for you. Well done on recognising what happened as a…

A friend of mine is asexual, and when she told me a few months ago and it didn’t change anything for either of us. She hadn’t told anyone else and I wanted her to know that she wouldn’t be treated differently for it. Yes, as an adult woman it is fun to talk about sex sometimes but it’s definitely NOT the only thing…

Oh wow that’s impressive abstaining! Did you live together beforehand? My current record is three times... went for four but poor bf was spent. Whoops! You have given me hope though! Abstinence is key!