I am a boss of bosses. I have almost a hundred employees across a large swath of the US and am responsible for hundreds of millions of dollars in revenue. I NEVER yell at an employee. Ever. No matter how BADLY they fuck up. I have the power, I have the responsibility, and I am the example. Yelling at an employee when…

I have a very strong stomach, but I found this incredibly disturbing and triggering. I didn’t know I could react to something the way this hit me.

Oh the comfort of Aunt Beast. ❤️

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You are-your FIL sounds like a really good, clear-eyed man. But to clarify it’s both MY father and HIS mother. We get it from both sides. *sigh*

My father. And my MIL.

So, fun HR story. I am a director at a Fortune 50 with ~100 employees. We had an opening for a front line position-very popular entry level role, pays decent for the area (~70K ish in GA). Internal employee applies. He’s got a good history, has worked with the team before, seems like a great candidate. No blemishes on…

Yes! And then they turn into a 7 year old boy and you sell your soul to Under Armour.

I read a Jinn trilogy by Samantha Young-it’s been a while but I think it was pretty good.

Hi-going through the same shit with my dad. I’m so sorry.

Didn’t we have a mortician commenter for a while? I would appreciate her thoughts on this. I have enough to be horrified about without worrying needlessly.

Yah...I couldn’t even address that. Like-what the actual fuck is wrong with people?

Director at a Fortune 50 here-same thing. A position of trust requires us to enforce the boundaries no matter what.

It can be “self-heating.” So... a warm lump of silicone?

Whitney, I googled “Frigid Farrah” because I couldn’t get my mind around the idea that there is enough of a market for rape dolls that they are making fucking rape robots.

That’s why it came up. We were with friends and playing songs that we find particularly-sexy- due to a discussion we were having, my better half played one of mine (Weeknd’s “Earned It” from 50 Shades actually) and then my friend’s husband brought up this movie and requested this song.

We played this song at game night last night-I had never heard it before.

You have to let them know, IF you’re looking for a long-term relationship or partnership where you will be sharing financial decisions, children, a home, etc. If it’s just a hookup or short term, not as big a deal.

Damn Duck. As someone who values financial stability over pretty much everything other than my family’s actual life, I would be pissed. Money can’t buy happiness but it sure makes sadness a lot more bearable.

But if it’s consistent, you won’t garner the click spikes from everyone looking for it...