This is kind of a gross way to shame people.

lol science

I live in a city of about 500k people. I work across town from my home. I have never owned a car, and will likely never buy one. My rent for a nice 2 bedroom is like $700 a month, and my air is fresh and lovely. You can live in civilization without a car just fine without being a suburbanite dick about it.

We lost my mom’s ex about a year ago. She killed herself after many years of struggling with addiction. She and mom broke up several years ago, and she had several experiences that nearly killed her. Her life was not glamorous, and she died alone on New Year’s Eve. The struggle that you feel when you can’t help or…

Eh, I should have known better than to engage. There are people out there who just can’t see outside of their own little reality.

No, he’s passing judgment on people who put trust in their childcare providers, since apparently that doesn’t count towards “affording” a child. But hey, good that you guys made friends...

I’ll make sure to tell my sister that she shouldn’t have had a baby with a guy who died 4 months later. She should have seen that coming. What an idiot.

I worked in preschools and child care centers while I was in college. We had a kid who was just over 2 years with an undiagnosed peanut allergy. He snagged some of a friend’s sandwich, and his throat swelled shut immediately.

The early shoppers are absolutely the worst. As the season goes on, people get a lot jollier, and I get less cranky. Best shopping vibes are a week or so before Christmas, early morning. No one is really up yet, but you still get all the Christmas cheer.

I’m all teared up. Thank you for this today.

It’s probably the dimethicone. It will adhere to some hair more than others, especially fine hair, and make it feel heavy. I use a clarifying shampoo once a month to take care of build up, but I have thicker hair.

It’s probably the dimethicone. It will adhere to some hair more than others, especially fine hair, and make it feel…

Got my hair cut today - my stylist gushed over how soft and healthy my hair is. Aussie 3 Minute Miracle, $2.59 a bottle. My hair is long, curly/wavy, and a little oily. I wash 2-3 times a week, roots only, and then apply the conditioner.

Got my hair cut today - my stylist gushed over how soft and healthy my hair is. Aussie 3 Minute Miracle, $2.59 a…

Making some of my favorite veggie enchiladas for dinner tonight. Corn tortillas (yes, corn, you heathens) layered lasagne style with red chile sauce, sauteed black beans, mushrooms, corn, zucchini, and onion with oodles of cheese. Bake until bubbly, try not to burn mouth.

You do not live in the southwest. Fall and winter are gifts from heaven. Shut the fuck up and go build a snowman or whatever the fuck you do up north. The rest of us will be continuing to wear sweaters in 85° weather in a weird, misguided effort to make it seem less fucking hot.

Salads are fucking awesome. I hate lettuce - my salads have no lettuce, because it’s a garbage vegetable. Mr. Hudders, who has a high level of veggie distrust due to his mother’s habit of cooking the shit out of everything, will eat salads, especially those without lettuce. Good salads have fats because most vitamins…

We all deal with our sexual assaults differently. Some of us take a personal stake in our assaults, and some choose to let go of the self blame. Neither tack is wrong, and saying that her mentality is negative or counter productive doesn’t seem fair to me.

Your feels are my feels... I’m overweight, and I eat well 75% of the time. Vegetarian, whole grains, good food. The other 25% of the time, I am sneaking double cheeseburgers, hiding the containers from my husband, and feeling like an awful person because my stress and moderate depression get the best of me. Yes, it is…

It’s really good to read what you just wrote. My mom, who was anorexic in her 20s and is a recovering alcoholic, has some of the craziest eating restrictions. When we were kids, she enforced them on us as well - no dairy, no wheat, no tomatoes, no potatoes, so on and so forth. I’m in my late 20s now and just coming to…

If only! I actually quit very professionally, since there were several awesome people that I hired and trained who still depended on that job for, like, rent and stuff. I wanted to make sure there was no retaliation. Turns out there was no point - they terminated everyone I had hired and denied them unemployment.

This is fucking toxic. It gives me flashbacks to my last job, where I was forced to work upwards of 70 hours a week, live and bleed for the job, and got nothing but threats to my position if we didn’t perform above standards every single day. 30-40 days at a time without a day off, and no PTO time - just a week of…