I have no idea what this means but it, and your name, made me laugh.

Yeah but Rose colored glasses = PRETTIEST glasses, so don’t ever let anyone pressure you to take them off!

I’m going to try and follow your excellent example of remembering where her hate and judgment is actually directed (the fact that she doesn’t even think this would be controversial helps with context, too) and ...um... point out that UNRELATED to this subject matter, this was a really evocative and pretty poetic turn…

Sure, this makes complete sense and is the case of many of my friends. It takes time, and the heteronormativity of most cultures can muddy the waters.

I appreciate you put effort into a long response, but I don’t typically read on after being addressed as “hon” as an opening salvo. Are you perhaps Southern? I don’t mean that dismissively, I’m looking for context...

Well, except that you’re acknowledging it now, yes—? Partly because this is a safe and anonymous space?

“Women who are initially successful in partnering with men, as is more traditionally expected, may never explore their attraction to other women.

True, true.

Take my goddam money.

I will say, Butch & Leisurely sounds like a fabulous lifestyle magazine.

(ETA: Pun intended by “hip”.)

I mean, he only said *committed* lesbians. Hobby Lesbians are totally still welcome at Leger.

Yup. And then we get the movie versions every decade. Oh, you sexually dissatisfied, angsty class-hopping New Yorkers, you! (I’m fond of the 90s film versions. Because they all seem to star Chris Eigeman,)

Yup, massive gender disparity in the ranks. And yep, it’s ignorant when people overlook the contributions of the crew/post etc. in terms of the quality of the finished product.

Ha. We have different careers, but the same lifestyle, you and I.

Fuck. Yes. Sing it.

FWIW, I can also tell you that it’s still the same story from the other side.

LIES! (I’m just saying, a girl can dream.)

...I’ll say! a normal penis is about seven inches. Hemsworth is at LEAST 6 ft 5.

“Hollister has plans to turn the convent into a boutique hotel and restaurant, while Perry would transform it into a private home.”