She has three. Jace, Kaiser, and Ensley.

He’s an outstanding alcoholic.

Not sure at all about the whole leaving the house thing.... Sounds awfully suspicious to me. And I feel like drinking at bars is a young person’s thing? Like I would do that when I was in my 20s, but now I’m afraid I would just be pathetic...

Before my mom had a debilitating stroke in her 50s, she used to go down to Florida in the winter. This was after my dad died (we’re not historically long livers). Anyhow, she made friends with an older lady while in Naples FL. Just found out this older lady, who is now 104 (not fucking kidding), is riding out the…

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I dunno. I wonder about that a lot. I think some of it might be that women think a lot about parenthood, men don’t until they are in it. So I bet a lot of men sort of stumble into it- like they think they want to be dads but haven’t actually thought about it until it’s happening and then they want to run away because…

Jesus, yes. If you decide to end it, this is not the time for DIY. Ask your divorced friends (or your ob-gyn* if you have no divorced friends) who the toughest divorce lawyer in town is.

Yeah, breast pumping didn’t work for me; my husband never gave a feed and the kids bonded fine. What if the baby (like mine) doesn’t take a bottle?

Honestly think it’s because they have a longer reproductive cycle than we do. Most men who are shitty to their partners during their younger years can turn their life around at 50, reproduce with a 20 year old, and everyone around them will be like, “John’s really turned his life around. Look at what a great dad he…

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Also, why the fuck is “men abandoning long-established relationships after an intentional pregnancy” a thing?

One worse thing is making pronouncements about how entire genders—as in slightly less than half of the effing human population—behaves and thinks. If she and her husband roll like this, fab. Any reason his preferences have to be “how men are” instead of “how Evan is?”

Yep, setting feminism back several decades. Stupid cunt. I know that hating anyone/anything is a waste of time and energy, but fuck this moron.

Pretty sure I couldn’t point out Kerr, but this is the kind of shit that makes me already hate her. Like, feminism is about choice, and if you want to put on a dress and light some candles, you do you. But to suggest that this is what other women need to do to make their relationships work, and that if they don’t,…

It’s not even that interesting. She’s a lezzo, everyone knows it, and nobody there could organize a fuck in a brothel. The least attractive people.

Tell him to leave us alone.

This is how I imagine these two behind closed doors

I mentioned this below, but he’s been doing this for the entirety of their relationship. Their courtship, engagement, marriage, honeymoon phase, and ultimately their child are conceived of a lie. “He’s a douche” is such an awful way to simplify the magnitude of his sin, and “you have him by the strings” is laughable.…

Seriously. It takes a special kind of scumbucket to marry and have kids with someone while keeping options open with a side piece for five entire years. There’s a time and place for breezy cool girl advice - this isn’t it. This shit rips people’s lives apart. The emotional pain is often physical as well. Every day…

Exactly. The advice about her foisting child rearing for a newborn on him is garbage. He’s not invested in the relationship. If his lady can’t move to him, he WILL move to her, and if LW thinks he’s going to put in his work as a father, let him prove it otherwise.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you DTMFA!