Really sorry for the terribly late reply. They are not TTS for most - I size up a full size in points and 1.5 sizes for loafers b/c my feet are wide. Most people size up a half size for flats, but at minimum, you’ll want to go up a half size in all. They hold up great - just need to stay on top of smelly insoles! I…

Have you tried Rothy’s loafers? They aren’t cheap but they are comfy and can be washed. Here’s a link for $20 off your first pair, if you want!

A Practical Wedding. Go there and learn all the things. And have fun!

THIS. It is not a fat woman’s job to hide her body from someone who may deem it unattractive. The trick, for me, is making sure that I believe I look attractive in it and I’m not basing it on the thin asthetic.

I’ve heard good things about Foxcroft button-downs.

I just don’t like taking supplements except for D vitamins b/c I’m deficient and my doctor tells me to (I also am on other meds, I have enough to take!). I feel like if there was a magic supplement or pill for weight loss, we’d all be on it and be skinny. Agree that the shakes were good though.

I barely lasted a day on Herbalife. I wanted to pass out.

I’m about to try the Always Hungry? plan which claims it makes our biology work for us, not against us, but it means cutting out sugar - real and fake - and carbs in the beginning. I’m fairly terrified, but I’ll try it. The next stop for me would be bariatric surgery which is also terrifying.

I cannot stress enough how lovely this top is:

Nordstrom (and Nordstrom Rack) are my go-to places for clothes these days. I love my Torrid jeggings and some on-trend pieces when they go on sale. Ashley Stewart, Modcloth, Society+ (or CoolGalBlue), ASOS, Avenue, Lord & Taylor has a great plus-size section (online too!), Melissa McCarthy’s brand on HSN (also…

The three women in the back row are all Hear No Evil, Contour No Evil, Apply Fake Eyelashes No Evil.

Some sales at SWAK (plus size) - $20 off $100, etc.

Lane Bryant 40% off! HAVEFUNLB

Well, that map is ruined forever. Well done!

One of the reasons I liked this movie was b/c the romantic lead guy was Bill Hader. Bill effing Hader. In what universe is he a McConahey (can’t be arsed to look up the spelling)-Grant-Bloom-insert good looking white guy here- caliber lead? He isn’t. But he’s funny as hell and looks more like the mortals on the dating…

Me too metoometoooooo! It was ahmahzing.

Although I’m really sorry that it was so hard for you and had to go through all the feelings, I think it’s an important thing to discuss. What is the real cost of a diet? What is 5 lbs worth to your psyche? Personally, as an overweight person, there isn’t a minute of my life where I’m not agonizing over what I’m…

Actually feminist. I was shocked as anyone.

They've been married since 2007 and together since 2005 or 6. GET IT TOGETHER. His wife has family that Im close (enough) to, so now I, freaking out on multiple levels. Are they gonna hate me? Ugh.

Right?? Oh and Dad just called tonight to say they are going through a “rough patch”...