Your ex sounds like textbook Cluster B personality disorder (...just like the majority of rapists and abusers). Sorry you went through that; unfortunately at least 5% of the population is like this to some degree and are responsible for much of both actual crimes and false reports.

Uh, no. 80% of people absolutely do not have HPV. That is the estimated LIFETIME PREVALENCE rate. Our bodies can often clear the virus.

But yet they didn’t bother to mention any of the victims, despite the fact that, statistically speaking, at least one of them will try to kill themselves because of his crimes. (>12.5% of rape victims make a suicide attempt—and that’s not even accounting for aggravating factors, like betrayals of trust and having to…

Wow, 2 interviews, you say? That like totally cancels out all the years of in-depth interviewing (for peer-reviewed psych & policy studies) my friends and mentors have done based with porn stars, not to mention what my actual friends that work in the industry say. You know, a rather well known actress came in two…

Oh, no, it happens...quite a bit, sadly. Even legally-sanctioned prostitutes in Germany often make less than minimum wage workers:

Not about outright abuse? I just watched that film yesterday and the girls talked about being orally raped! One of the young ones outright said “Now I know what rape victims feel like” and then the older one talked about how “not everyone comes back from these experiences”. I think you might have some blinders on.

I’m sure it’s also frustrating for people like Kayden and Stoya to watch critiques of their industry paid for by another that is just as bad, if not worse, when it comes to covering up issues of abuse, rape, and near-absolute male power.

THANK YOU.

How about YOU try contacting the police about the rapes you’ve heard about. Just see how far YOU get without a complaining witness.

Your doctor is an idiot. People sue nowadays, when they get a serious std from a partner.

Speaking as a victim’s advocate, most rape victims never even get a call back. Like, ever.

Metaphorically assaulted?

“Presumably she was given a blood test during during the examination to check for date rape drugs, since that’s standard procedure in cases like this”

“Innocent until proven guilty”, contrary to popular misunderstanding, is not about the actual matter of whether one committed a crime, but rather what rules the state must play by when deciding to take from you your “life or liberty”. You can be 100% guilty in a moral sense but 100% innocent in the eyes of law if the…

In this case, the woman did all what I would expect and have heard from friend(s) that have been victims tend to do. She went to the hospital immediately, she went to the police, she notified someone as soon as it happened that there was an attack.

You mean the unfortunate guy at UVA......who didn’t actually exist? (And the Dean and frats boys who will undoubtedly receive huge defamation settlements?)

You could be accused of murder and face the same issues.

I don’t understand this focus on the physical mechanics—arousal is a mind-state, which is why it’s possible to orgasm without physical touch.

I love how the ignore that many women still find these types of attacks traumatic enough to commit suicide. Like Lizzie Seeberg at Notre Dame.

Wait, you think the rate of rapes has ACTUALLY dropped? Oh no honey