And I’m not bisexual.

doesnt matter - the point is, im not wrong or a liar or “cosplaying gay” just because I like to flip the script a little bit.

And if people want to suck a dick but identify as straight, maybe let them instead of telling them their semantics are wrong? Idk. Also wtf, this whole thread started because some guy assumed PWR BTTM was a “fake gay” because they had sex with a girl. I’m just appalled at all of the close-mindedness.

That’s not what I’m saying...?

I honestly have no idea what that post was about, but I tried to respond to it the best I could.

Sorry, I might be an idiot, but how are men who identify as straight but suck a dick every once in a while comparable in any way to Rachel Dolezal, a woman who actively profited off of a false racial and genetic identity?

I know what gay means in common usage. I’m gay. Sometimes I beat it to women - still identify as gay. I don’t introduce myself as “queer spectrum” every time because who cares? My friends aren’t “forcing” people to accept their redefinitions of a language just because i fucked them one time and they choose not to…

Why are we not treating sexuality the way we treat gender in this conversation and honoring the individual’s identification rather than focusing on semantics?

I am actually gay and sometimes I beat it to ladies. I still identify as gay. I am not bisexual. Words have meaning based on experience, interpretation, and intent.

So if you’re gay but enjoyed a sexual experience with a woman, you have no choice but to identify as bisexual?

again, bisexual/purple are things that exist. You can be a power bottom and sleep with women.

Maybe think of sexuality as a spectrum instead of accusing people of being liars or something, idk

I’m not speculating anyone’s sexuality or trying to police what is and isn’t what I think the real realm of “gay.” And saying you “haven’t looked into the band much” means you should probably do a little more research before before accusing people of appropriation.

... I have gay friends who also enjoy sex with women. Are they not allowed to identify as gay, then? If I touch a vagina, am I suddenly merely cosplaying?

Also, getting upset over stories hinging on the words “alleged” and “may” is a pretty easy way to give yourself an aneurism. Also, have you heard these guys talk? They talk about queer culture and poppers like people with firsthand experience. They are swish as hell. If they’re “appropriating,” they deserve an Oscar.

I’m wondering why you’re interested in someone’s else’s sexuality in the first place if it isn’t disclosed.

Ive had a lot of sex with men who identify as straight, and I still don’t even really give a shit what they call themselves. Why is this what you’re hung up about?

I am trying to read this as something other than than “I think words are more important than people” and am coming up short. Help me out? They’re pronouns, language is fluid - maybe not the important part of the story?

It’s half the price. They’re not shooting themselves in the foot, they’re covering their butt and marking the entire handheld gaming market with their scent, while trailblazing. It’s a brilliant move, even if you and I would NEVER buy a 2DS XL.

Dude, Kids in the Hall had this idea down like 20 years ago! Awesome!