It is a dress, so it is clearly asking for rape. You need to try tight jeans... wait, then that judge in Italy says you are unrapeable and if someone succeeds, you consented automatically.

In fact, I recommend that all women everywhere just preemptively kill themselves to as to avoid any future assault/murder. That’s right, ladies - if someone else decides to assault and/or murder you, you had it coming! You could have killed yourself beforehand and avoided the whole thing!

Trini here. You wear outrageous costumes, dance, sing, lime (trini slang for chillaxing with friends, basically) and drink. Sounds like she was doing exactly what everyone else was doing. This man is shit.

Right, like the silent study halls and water sipping contests are the hottest parts of Carnival.

Let’s call this what it is, it isn’t just victim blaming - it’s giving people the idea that it’s ok to rape and murder.

Well we all know that old rule, if you wear a bikini you’re just asking to get murdered.

I can’t help but wonder if these assholes don’t watch the news or read, like, anything at all. Every few weeks, a story comes out where a government official says some victim-blaming bullshit and the appropriately outraged people rake him through the coals. Yet they keep doing it. It’s like the not-so-smart puppy I…

Here’s a plan: next year, let’s all the women show up at carnival fully clothed and stone-cold sober, and see how the menfolk like that. Not at all, is gonna be my guess. Not at all.

The mayor added, “Look it’s sad, of course! Any living thing dying is sad. I had a dog once that I was very fond of. His name was “chastity mcsparkles”. But I warned everyone not to get raped and murdered! Do you remember how I warned you? I said don’t do it. Don’t go and get raped and murdered. And even with that,…

Kee also referred to the murder as “embarrassing for Carnival”

His Worship the Mayor of Port of Spain Alderman Raymond Tim Kee

If you’re barefoot, then you’re showing your ankles, and that’s just asking for it. Best you bury yourself deep under the ground, or waddle around wrapped head-to-toe like a mummy.

The prancing and dignity remark is why I hate people/am staring at the thumb monkey post for five straight minutes before I go on with my life.

Had she just stayed barefoot in the kitchen where she belonged this never would have happened.

What the fuck is this guys problem. Everytime he said something it got worse. “Let your imagination roll”?

yeah, that made me uncomfortable. it is fine to criticize someone’s work but... anyone - male or female doesn’t need to be written about this way.

OMG can you imagine those intense eyes, looking up at you while he was applying that particular set of skills, JUST after you got to hear him pronounce the word “particular”???????

We’ve done such a fucked up job of pushing men to believe that they deserve only the hottest girl and that they should be thankful that someone’s paying attention to them. I think we’re just starting to realize how badly we’ve ingrained it in people and trying to make changes but I don’t think we’re ever going to see…

Yes. I’ve been afraid for men who have threatened suicide over me leaving them. I’ve been fearful of men who get violent while drinking. I’ve been fearful of men following me home at night. I’ve been fearful of men telling me they want to “fuck” me while I’m trying to do my job. I also have very strong male figures in…

I wasn’t joking when I’ve repeatedly said we need to lower the percentage of men from 50% to 10%. I’m not advocating murder. Just a virus.